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Why is Charlie Sheen an Actor?. Why Do We Do What We Do? Albert Einstein. “Fear or stupidity has always been the basis of most human action.” . Basis of Human Action and Decision Making?. Beliefs Act out your beliefs Desires Pursue your desires Instinct Succumb to instinct.
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Why Do We Do What We Do?Albert Einstein • “Fear or stupidity has always been the basis of most human action.”
Basis of Human Action and Decision Making? • BeliefsAct out your beliefs • Desires Pursue your desires • Instinct Succumb to instinct
BeliefsYou act out what you believe? • I believe the world is a dangerous place. • I believe people should______. • I am skeptical of all claims. • An “ideal” manager does ______. • The best investment philosophy is___.
Question Beliefs & Values • Ethics change over time • Dad’s world view
What Do We Know? • Should we have a revolutionary war? • Should non-landowners be able to vote? • Should we free the slaves? • Should former slaves be able to vote? • Should women be able to vote? • Should we enact worker dignity laws? • Should we enter WWII? • Is rock and roll the devil’s music? • Were McCarthy’s Communist hearings a good idea? • Should divorced people be treated with disgrace? • Should we pass the Civil Rights Act? • Was the Vietnam war a good idea? • END
Desires • Cialdini knows where our desires come from • Are we honest about our desires? • Mark Cuban and flattery • Desire to feel good • Desire to feel safe • I have to scare you first. • First I create the disease – then I create the cure.
Living by Instinct“Nature, Mr. Allnut, is what we are put in this world to rise above”Rose Thayer (Katherine Hepburn) The African Queen Human Animals – Instinct…...................Real Human Beings – Free Will • Wealth/Greed................................... Altruism and charity • Seek security at all cost....................Get out of your comfort zone • Preserve status quo..........................Change • Meeting society’s expectations...........Be authentic to yourself (following the herd).......................... (think for yourself) • Traditional gender roles.................... Equality of the sexes • Tribalism (nationalism)..................... Multi-culturalism • Praise authority................................ Question authority • Praise and follow the leader.............. I don’t need a leader • Consistency is safe............................Strive for improvement • Guided by personal experience...........Critical thinking • Freewill???........................................Free Will!!!!! • Surviving........................................Living
Basis of Human Action and Decision Making?Beliefs, Desires & Instinct • You do what you feel obligated to do. • You do what is the easiest. • You do what makes you feel safe. • You do what you’ve always done.
You Might Be Exercising Free Will If….. • You change a core belief. • You get outside your comfort zone. • You admit you were wrong about something important. • You increase your self-awareness. • You do something you wouldn’t do. • What if I like what I do?
Requirements of Free Will • Awareness of choices and real consequences • Self-awareness • Philosophy and goals • A proactive mindset • Free of coercion or undue influence
1. Awareness of Choices and Real Consequences • If you choose one of 10 known options when there are, in fact, more than 100 options, have you really exercised free will?
Junkfinger Test • Tattoos • Traffic tickets • Brushes with the law • Being sick • Promptness • Pets • Smoking
If You Don’t Want to Fall in the Grand Canyon--Don’t Go to Arizona What I do today affects what happens tomorrow.
Junkfinger TestIn the Business World • Inconsistency • Excuses • Making enemies at work • Always talking, never listening • Accept things as they are • Acting uninterested – not engaged • Lose credibility
Goldfinger • Behavior and attitude that put you in a position for good things to happen: • ? • ? • ? • ? • ?
Most people end up where their behavior indicates they want to be.
2. Self-awarenessMetacognition “The truth will set you free {John 8:32}…… but first it will piss you off.” Werner Erhard, founder, est Training “The greatest of all faults, I should say, is to be conscious of none.” Thomas Carlyle (1795 – 1881) Scottish writer
3. Philosophy and Goals • Life philosophies down 50% • Man may be wired for meaning • “Consider first the end.” • Leonardo da Vinci
No Philosophy?A lifestyle is not the same as a life. “Consumerism is a desperate substitute for living. Consumer bliss has the effect of diverting people’s attention away from the community to the self.”--Vaclav Havel Czech playwright and political leader
Selling Consumerism • Advertising executive speaking on the great challenge of his business today: “Consumers are like cockroaches – you spray them and spray them and eventually they build immunity.”
4. A Proactive Mindset • “The best way to forecast your future is to make it happen.” • Bias for action (discussed later)
5. The CRAMPERSFree of coercion or undue influence • C Culture (gives context) • R Religion • A Advertising/Mass Marketing • M Media • P Parents • E Education • R Relationships (who you know)
AdvertisingCRAMPER example: • Your desire: hunger – their solution – Big Mac w/bacon or Combos • Prey on insecurity, and promise happiness and security through consumption
CRAMPERS • CRAMPERS set the serving size. • Media’s goal is to entertain not inform. • Machiavelli's real message: People want to be led and told what to do. • Monster.com problems.
Basis of Human Action and Decision Making? • “He who joyfully marches in rank and file has already earned my contempt. He has been given a large brain by mistake, since for him the spinal cord would suffice.” --Albert Einstein
Student’s Thoughts on Free Will: • “When you grow up in the heartland–using free will doesn’t look like such a good idea. I think back to junior high and high school and the only kids to use freewill were criticized and even punished.” • “I was scolded hard for doing anything or even thinking about anything that society or my parents said was not the norm.” • “As a kid growing up in Oklahoma, I was always taught that curiosity killed the cat.” • “… my rebellious nature, which I blame on my parents’ unwavering need for me to conform to society’s norms.”
Free Will Applications • Awareness keeps your brain on track • Question your beliefs and assumptions • Be honest about your desires • Struggle to exercise free will • Lifelong learning • Put yourself in positions for good things to happen • Set goals and make things happen • Be aware of CRAMPERS • CRAMP others in a positive manner