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Parenthood: a cross-cultural approach. By Theresa Butler, Megan Collins, Joshua D'Alessio, Mark Divilinsky, and Megan Boucher. Purpose.
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Parenthood: a cross-cultural approach By Theresa Butler, Megan Collins, Joshua D'Alessio, Mark Divilinsky, and Megan Boucher
Purpose • “Childbirth is regarded as one of the most important events in a woman's life, and it can, in turn, affect the rest of their life, both physically, and emotionally.” – Jordan B, Davis-Floyd • This is also true for men. • We hope to uncover the cultural constructs surrounding becoming a parent in various cultures.
Role of the Mother • While pregnant, treated like princesses • Souvenirs given to visitors • Look forward to continuing family line (Edwards)
Role of the Father • Support and companionship • Acceptance of role • Many feel of no use during child birth • Rely more on third-party experts • Concern: education
Role of the Family • Social Support • Stay nearby • Close relationships
Role of the Mother • Stays in Hut after delivery • Takes care of the child: Clean, safe, nourished • Recovery: Exempted from chores; given special diet • Short recovery time
Role of the Father • Not allowed to be at birth • Provide family with food and medication
Role of the Family • Grandmother: • Advise family • Attend/Assist labor • Siblings: • Help with chores • Villagers: • Cultivating land
Role of the Mother • Social support – Collectivistic • Holism in maternal responsibility • Transformation to motherhood: conception • Environment • Physical • Emotional/Mental • Family work – wives (North, 2009). (Sociology of Health & Illness, 2007)
Role of the Father • Most time spent with child – Infancy • Father’s absence = traditional family structure • Stigma • Divided responsibility (Seto et. al., 2006) (Morrone, & Matsuyama, 2013) (Shwalb, 1994)
Role of the Family • Grandparents: non interference • Proximity • Believe their status in family is eroding (Thang et. al., 2011) (Saito, & Yasuda, 2009) (Strome et. al., 1996)
Role of the Mother • Importance of health services – Mother and child • Educate and instill family values/morals • Appropriately educate on sex education
Role of the Father • Financial support for mother and newborn • Present during child’s birth
Role of the Family • Care and support in the home for mother and newborn • Share knowledge about how to react in emergency situations • Influence healthy development
Islamic Culture Childbirth is a female issue!
Role of the Mother - No divorce worries - No Alcohol, Pork or Colostrum - No Husbands Allowed (kind of) - The "40 Day Rule" - Don't forget the placenta Women are sacred, revered and protected. The solidarity of the family unit depends on it.
Role of the Father - Baby Visitation Coordinator, Baby Namer - Say a prayer - read from the Qur'an - Clean the baby with water containing date seeds
Role of the Family - Butcher a sheep (two for a boy, one for a girl) - Special celebration for children (sing, light candles, special dinner) - The "40 Day Rule" host
Cross-cultural Analysis The Subtle Differences
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