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RELATIONAL DEVELOPMENT. What is a Relationship. Interaction between two people over time Verbal and nonverbal exchanges. Aspects of Interaction. CONTENT what people say and do; breadth and depth PATTERN Structure of how people say and do; sequences CONTEXT
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What is a Relationship • Interaction between two people over time • Verbal and nonverbal exchanges
Aspects of Interaction • CONTENT • what people say and do; breadth and depth • PATTERN • Structure of how people say and do; sequences • CONTEXT • Interaction takes place within a context that affects meaning • CONTINUITY • Past, present, future
Properties of Relationship Development • Partners interact more often, for longer periods of time, and in a widening array of settings • Partners attempt to restore proximity when separated, and feel comfortable when proximity is regained • Partners “open up” to each other, in the sense that they disclose secrets and share physical intimacies • Partners becomeless inhibited, more willing to sharepositive & negative feelings, & to praiseand criticize each other.
Partners develop their own communication system and become ever more efficient in usingit • Partners increase their ability to map and anticipate each others’ views of social reality • They begin to synchronize their goals & behavior & develop stable interpersonal patterns • They increase in the relationship, thus their investment enhancing it’s importance in their life space • they begin increasingly to feel that their separate interests are inextricably tied to the well-being of their relationship
Partner’s increase their liking, trust & love for each other • Partner’s see the relationship as irreplaceable, or at least as unique • Partner’s more and more relate to others as a couple rather than as individuals