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Verbal Judo

Verbal Judo. Customer Care for Difficult People Presented by Mellonie Richardson . What is Verbal Judo?. Verbal : Of, relating to, or associated with words: a detailed verbal description. Judo :

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Verbal Judo

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  1. Verbal Judo Customer Care for Difficult People Presented by Mellonie Richardson

  2. What is Verbal Judo? Verbal: Of, relating to, or associated with words: a detailed verbal description. Judo: A sport and method of physical training similar to wrestling, developed in Japan in the late 19th century and using principles of balance and leverage adapted from jujitsu.

  3. Making a Positive Initial Contact Verbal & Non-Verbal Cues (smiling, nodding, eye contact, upbeat, enthused and respectful telephone voice, etc) Greeting (standard, and welcoming including your name and an offer to assist) Stature (straight posture, professional appearance)

  4. Active Listening Techniques Listen from the beginning and to the entire dialogue (when entering office or initially answering the telephone) Pick up non-verbal cues indicating stress, rising temper, defensiveness while listening (folding of arms, pacing, raising voice, etc)

  5. Developing Professionalism Use existing processes, systems to eliminate perceived bias (treat everyone the same) Share information typed, e-mailed or shared via a printed document (relies on process and removes attention from you as a person) Develop guards for your verbal triggers (understand your breaking point and guard against it)

  6. Knowing When Words Fail Become aware of the stages of escalation of a problem • Misunderstanding(I don’t know what you mean or How does the online process work?) • Denial (Yes I did submit my application yesterday – at 11:59 pm) • Anger (This is ridiculous, I can’t believe this!)

  7. Knowing When Words Fail What to do when they stop listening to you (misunderstanding, denial and anger over ride reasonable solutions and further conversation) • Articulating your forced responses (“I’m really sorry that you have missed the deadline, the position closed on...which means…you have a couple of options…)

  8. Addressing Difficult People • Ask the person what exactly he/she is upset about, in order to show that you are interested in communicating rather than in arguing. The burden of responsibility is now back on them. • Agreewith or acknowledge one of their reasonable points verses generalizations (ex: it took days to get my voice mailed returned verse you all Never return telephone calls)

  9. Addressing Difficult People • Discuss without a defensive tone (resist the urge to participate in an argument, being silent while someone is ranting is a good way to not be pulled into an argument

  10. Dealing with Difficult People • Removethe person from your environment (Please take a seat in the front office or we’ll need to reschedule your appoint) • Confrontthe person about his/her behavior directly (Ask “Are you raising your voice in order to intimidate me?” or “Will speaking harshly to me resolve this situation?”)

  11. Dealing with Difficult People • Release it(the Buddha example – “If someone offers you a ‘gift’ and you decline it who is left with it?) • Change it- use behavioral conditioning (ignore or confront negative behavior and reward positive behavior)

  12. The Bottom Line ABUSE VIOLENCE Is unacceptable no matter the circumstances Identify safeguards (power in numbers, stand next to one another when addressing upset individuals, Identify and practice safety procedures and escape routes • Is unacceptable behavior no matter the circumstances • Verbal and/or physical abuse is NOT tolerated and irate customers should be forwarded to management immediately • If possible brief management of the call before transferring the call

  13. QUESTIONS/COMMENTS THANK YOU!

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