310 likes | 426 Views
Women’s Management Course Nashville, TN August 30-31, 2011. Managing Your Team’s Personalities. Understanding Others. What’s needed for you to get buy-in from your team?. Trust. Respect. Confidence. These elements help create comfort in the mind of the employee. Understanding Others.
E N D
Women’s Management Course Nashville, TN August 30-31, 2011
Understanding Others What’s needed for you to get buy-in from your team? Trust Respect Confidence These elements help create comfort in the mind of the employee
Understanding Others Relationships are built on a combination of… Substance Style Everything you bring to a relationship is a combination of these two elements.
Style Dimension #1 Assertiveness ASKTELL Perceived willingness to influence the thoughts and actions of others.
Style Dimension #1 Ask - Assertive Behavior Non- aggressive Indirect Quieter Softer Slower Paced
Style Dimension #1 Tell - Assertive Behavior Faster Paced More aggressive Louder Direct More talkative
Style Dimension #2 Responsiveness CONTROL EMOTE Perceived willingness to share feelings or emotions when relating to others.
Style Dimension #2 Control - Responsive Behavior Protective Subdued Focused on tasks Less animated Comfortable with data
Style Dimension #2 Emote - Responsive Behavior More animated Open Focused on people Outgoing Comfortable with stories and opinions
The Behavior Matrix CONTROL Grey Green TELL ASK Blue Red EMOTE
The Behavior Matrix CONTROL Grey TELL ASK EMOTE
The Behavior Matrix CONTROL CONTROL Grey Persistent ASK ASK Serious Orderly Exacting Industrious Picky Critical
The Behavior Matrix CONTROL CONTROL Grey • Want to be right • Slower cautious decisions • Facts, principles, logic • Low risk tolerance • Show me • Quiet disposition • Disciplined use of time • Reject involvement ASK ASK ThinkingOriented
The Behavior Matrix CONTROL Green TELL
The Behavior Matrix CONTROL CONTROL Strong willed Green Independent TELL Decisive Efficient Practical Tough Pushy
The Behavior Matrix TELL CONTROL CONTROL Green • Want to win • Want to be in charge • Fast, efficient, to the point • Focused on the present • Facts OK, but in small doses • Will take limited risks • Want options • Reject inaction ActionOriented
The Behavior Matrix ASK Blue EMOTE
The Behavior Matrix Supportive Dependable Respectful Agreeable Willing ASK ASK Conforming Blue Unsure EMOTE EMOTE
The Behavior Matrix • Want acceptance • Slower to act • Share personal feelings • Like one-on-one • Want win-win relationships • Prefer what is known • “People” people • Reject conflict RelationshipOriented ASK ASK Blue EMOTE EMOTE
The Behavior Matrix TELL Red EMOTE
The Behavior Matrix Ambitious Enthusiastic Friendly Dramatic TELL TELL Stimulating Red Undisciplined EMOTE EMOTE Egotistical
The Behavior Matrix IntuitionOriented • Want recognition • Act quickly and instinctively • Focused on the future • Creative • Outgoing • Opinionated • Impulsive • Reject isolation TELL TELL Red EMOTE EMOTE
The Behavior Matrix CONTROL Grey Green TELL ASK Blue Red EMOTE
The Behavior Matrix Grey Amalgamated Green Enterprises Blue Industries Red Associates Create a Company Image Company Vehicle Company Mascot (Animal) Company Song
The Behavior Matrix CONTROL Grey Green TELL ASK Blue Red EMOTE
The Behavior Matrix CONTROL Avoidance Autocratic TELL ASK Acquiesce Attack EMOTE
Danger Zones! CONTROL Avoidance Autocratic TELL ASK Acquiesce Attack EMOTE
The Behavior Matrix CONTROL Analytical Driver TELL ASK Amiable Expressive EMOTE
Book: Social Styles/Management Style: Developing Productive Work Relationships Robert Bolton & Dorothy Grover Bolton
Necessary Ingredients Awareness Flexibility