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Embark on the journey of public speaking with confidence and skill. Explore the power of effective communication, decode the communication process, learn the art of speaking ethically, and master the art of listening. Gain insights into cultural and gender influences on communication styles. Enhance your listening skills through active techniques and understand the importance of empathy in effective communication.
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GETTING STARTED INTRODUCTION TO PUBLIC SPEECH
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. - Chinese Proverb
Why Study Public Speaking? • Empowerment • Employment “ I will pay more for a person’s ability to speak and express himself than for any other quality he might possess.” Charles M. Schwab
Speaking & Conversation • Public Speaking is planned • Public Speaking is formal • The roles of public speakers & the audiences are clearly defined
The Communication Process MESSAGE FEEDBACK RECEIVER
The Speaker- the originator of the communication message • Message- ideas and feelings presented to an audience through words, sound, and action symbols that are selected and organized by the speaker and interpreted by members of the audience. • The Speech- contains the message
Encoding- the process of transforming ideas and feelings into words, sounds, and actions • Decoding- the process of transforming messages back into ideas and feelings • The Channel- both the route traveled by the message and the means of transportation (Visual & Auditory) • The Audience- your entire reason for speaking • The Context- the interrelated conditions of communication
Physical Setting- the location, time of day, light, temperature, distance between communicators, and seating arrangement. • Historical setting-previous communication episodes • Psychological Setting- the manner in which people perceive both themselves and those with whom they communicate
Noise- any stimulus that gets in the way of sharing meanings • External Noise- sights, sounds, and other stimuli that interfere with intended meaning • Internal Noise- thoughts and feelings that interfere with meaning • Semantic noise- alternate meanings aroused by speaker • Feedback- verbal/non-verbal responses to message
Vocabulary • Elocution- the expression of emotion through posture, movement, gestures, facial expression, and voice. • Declamation- The delivery of already famous address. • Rhetoric- the use of words and symbols to achieve a goal
ETHICS • Beliefs, values, and moral principles by which people determine what is right or wrong • Free speech? (Must be balanced by responsibility to speak ethically)
SPEAKING ETHICALLY • HAVE A CLEAR, RESPONSIBLE GOAL • USE SOUND EVIDENCE & REASONING • BE SENSITIVE & TOLERANT OF DIFFERENCES • BE HONEST • AVOID PLAGIARISM & PLAGIAPHRASING
DO YOUR OWN WORK • ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR SOURCES
VOCABULARY • Ethnocentrism: self culture is superior to others • Cultural Intelligence: Skilled & flexible
Seven laws to better listening • Spend more time listening • Find interest in the other person • Stay out of the way • Listen to what people mean between the lines • Make notes • Assume the proper stance • Be aware of your filters
We spend more time listening than reading, writing, and speaking. • Hearing is a physiological process that occurs when you’re in the vicinity of vibration. It is basically a passive process occurs without any attention or effort on your part.
Listening involves 5 steps: • Receiving – hearing and attending • Understanding – learning and deciphering meaning • Remembering- recalling and retaining • Evaluating- judging and criticizing • Responding- answering and giving feedback
I. The Listening Process (stimuli) Receiving Responding Under- standing (back-channeling cues or feedback) (assign meaning) Evaluating Remembering (pos. or neg.) (reconstructive)
II. Listening, Culture, Gender A. Culture Effects: 1. Speech 2. Nonverbal Behaviors
B. Gender & Listening 3. Direct and Indirect Styles 4. Credibility 5. Feedback
III. Styles ofEffective Listening • Participatory and Passive Passive listening – listening that is attentive and supportive but occurs without talking and without directing the speaker in any nonverbal way. Also used negatively to refer to inattentive an uninvolved listening.
B. Empathic and Objective • Empathic listening – listening that warrants that you feel and see what speaker feels and sees. • Objective Listening- the ability to gather information beyond what you see and hear.
Non-judgmental listening-and listening with an open mind. • Critical listening- listening to evaluate the quality, value, appropriateness and importance of what you hear.
STYLES,CONT’D • PEOPLE ORIENTED • THEY EXPRESS FEELINGS & EMOTIONS • ARE HIGHLY EMPATHETIC • SEEK COMMON GROUND • ACTION ORIENTED • INFORMATION WELL ORGANIZED • EVIDENCE
CONTENT ORIENTED • PREFER COMPLEX INFORMATION • DETAILS • MAKE GOOD LAWYERS/JUDGES • TIME ORIENTED • SUCCINCT MESSAGES • BRIEF
IV. Active Listening = is a skill that produces therapeutic effects
Empathic Listening + Paraphrasing Active Listening
A. Purposes of Active Listening 1. Increases Accuracy 2. Validation of Others Feelings
B. Techniques 3. Prompts the Speaker to Explore Their Own Thoughts & Feelings 1. Paraphrase Speaker’s Meaning
2. Express Understanding of Speaker’s Feelings 3. Ask Questions