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Statistiek in VSA,UK,SA

Statistiek in VSA,UK,SA. Egskeiding syfer 51% 50 jaar terug was egskeiding taboe Die egskeiding syfer is basies identies tussen Christene en nie-gelowiges Patroon van “Dating Relationships”. “Singleness”.

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Statistiek in VSA,UK,SA

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  1. Statistiek in VSA,UK,SA • Egskeiding syfer 51% • 50 jaar terug was egskeiding taboe • Die egskeiding syfer is basies identies tussen Christene en nie-gelowiges • Patroon van “Dating Relationships”

  2. “Singleness” • Separate: A person who does not suffer from any kind of pressure (group, cultural, etc) • Unique: A person who know who they are in Christ, living purposefully and with vision. • Whole: A person who is sorted out, without pain or baggage

  3. Gen 1:26-28 (26) Toe het God gesê: “Kom Ons maak die mens as ons verteenwoordiger, ons beeld, sodat hy kan heers oor die vis in die see, die voëls in die lug, die mak diere, die wilde diere en al die diere wat op die aarde kruip.” (27) God het die mens geskep as sy verteenwoordiger, as beeld van God het Hy die mens geskep, man en vrou het Hy hulle geskep.

  4. Gen 1:26-28 (28) Toe het God hulle geseën en vir hulle gesê: “Wees vrugbaar, word baie, bewoon die aarde en bewerk dit. Heers oor die vis in die see, oor die voëls in die lug, oor al die diere van die aarde, ook oor die diere wat op die aarde kruip.”

  5. Singleness: Unique, Separate, Whole • God het “mens” gemaak in Sy eie beeld • Man en Vrou het dieselfde “gees” • Geestelik is man en vrou identities • Fisies en emosioneel funksioneer man en vrou uniek apart • Man en vrou verskil uniek in “siel” en “liggaam” • Ons het ook elkeen ‘n unieke werk

  6. Man: attributes • Mans het die kapasiteit en inherent die dryf om visioenêre leiers te wees • Mans wil kan voorsien • Mans wil kan beskerm • Mans is natuurlike leermeesters (Vader figure) • Mans is “cultivators”

  7. Vrou: attributes 1. All women are “enhancers”. a) She is the “co-leader” of what the man was given to do. b) She is a “companion” to the man. c) She is a “vision sharer”. d) She is a “helper” to the man. e) She is greatly “adaptable”.

  8. Vrou: attributes 2. All women are “reflectors”. • She is the object of a man’s love. 3. All women are “life-givers”. a) They have a natural womb for bearing children. b) They have natural creativity. c) They are life-givers of emotions.

  9. Definitions on dating • Group Dating: A group of friends having the common interest of getting to know each other resulting in personal growth. • Courtship: A relationship that is specifically purposed to see if two people are suited for marriage.

  10. Definitions on dating • Worldly Dating: An unnatural mixture between Group Dating and Courtship.

  11. So wat is die alternatief? 1. Singleness 2. Group Dating 3. Courtship 4. Marriage

  12. Adam was immers: • Separate: Geen groepsdruk nie • Unique: Hy het geweet wie hy is en wat sy doel was • Whole: Hy het nie enige “baggage” of pyn gehad nie

  13. Be like Adam! “It is not good for man to be alone if he is single”

  14. Group Dating • You date to get to know people. Not to manipulate them into a relationship. • You date to learn more about your preferences in the opposite gender. • Dating is an end in itself. • There is no commitment in dating. • It’s not romantic. • It’s about meeting people.

  15. Courtship • The possibility of marriage is at question. • You want to get to know the person on a more intimate level. • There is a higher level of commitment. • It’s romantic. • Courting is a means to an end. • It’s about seeing if you’re compatible for marriage.

  16. Worldly Dating 7 Misperceptions • Worldly dating tends to skip the friendship stage of a relationship all together. • Worldly dating often mistakes physical relationships for love. • Worldly dating often isolates the couple from other vital relationships

  17. Worldly Dating 7 Misperceptions • Worldly dating can distract young adults from their primary responsibility of preparing for the future. • Worldly dating can cause disconnection with God’s gift of singleness.

  18. Worldly Dating 7 Misperceptions • Worldly dating can create an artificial environment for evaluating another person’s character. • Worldly dating often becomes an end in itself.

  19. Resources 1. Harris, Josh – I kissed dating goodbye 2. Harris, Josh – Boy meets girl 3. Munro, Miles – Power and purpose of a man 4. Munro, Miles – Power and purpose of a woman 5. Eldridge, John – Wild at heart 6. Eldridge, John & Stasi – Captivating

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