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Enneagram couples

Enneagram couples. Enthusiast & Achiever. Tiana : Achiever (3) . Vaveen : Enthusiast (7) . -Success is key, love is earned through status. - Gluttony, lust, trouble committing, perma -smile. Conflict : 7 disgusts 3 with her laziness and ego.

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Enneagram couples

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  1. Enneagram couples

  2. Enthusiast & Achiever Tiana: Achiever (3) Vaveen : Enthusiast (7) -Success is key, love is earned through status - Gluttony, lust, trouble committing, perma-smile Conflict: 7 disgusts 3 with her laziness and ego Harmony: 7 allows 3 to relax, 3 teaches 7 to do work

  3. Peacemaker & individualist Marshall: Peacemaker (9) Lily: Individualist (4) • pushover at job, sell on his dreams due to what people say, indecisive - Creative talent, hogs conversation time Conflict: Trouble when they don’t agree, 4 being distracted from the relationship by other opportunities Harmony: 9 allows 4 to pursue her options, 4 plans out romantic dates

  4. Peacemaker & perfectionist 9 delegates into laziness & insensitivity while 1 chases perfectionism in her partner Ray : Peacemaker(9) - I don’t know what I said to make you mad Debra: Perfectionist (1) - What the bleep did you do wrong this time Mutual criticisms, challenge each other’s viewpoints

  5. Individualist & Enthusiast 7 takes 4 on his adventure; 4 impresses 7 through her talents, gives 7 hope Use each other for alternate material motives at 1st Rapunzel: individual (4) - Creative talents, leader of the dance Flynn: Enthusiast (7) - Smiley, ego, looking for the rich lifestyle

  6. Individualist & Helper Miss Piggy: Individualist (4) Wants to be the star, always Kermit the Frog: Helper (2) Has to cater to the needs of a lot of weird friends 4 is overbearing and 2 feels the strain 2’s acceptance & love of 4’s eccentricities 4’s loyalty

  7. Perfectionist &loyalist Hermione: Perfectionist (1) It’s LeviOsa, not LevioSAAAA Ron: Loyalist (6) Worried, Jealous, Prone to fight with friends Inability to confess feeling, 6’s jealousy which 1 cannot easily assuage Loyalty, ability to work as a team for common goal

  8. Achiever & Helper Rhett: Helper (2) Sticks loyally to Scarlett, cares for his love rival Scarlett: Achiever (3) Determination, see Searle Harmony: 2 is loyal to 3 for as long as 2 can be, 3 finds the good in 2 Conflict: 3 does not give to 2 emotionally, 2 chases 3 as a fantasy

  9. Achiever & Helper Jack Twist: Helper (2) Almost maternal to the sheep, flirty Harmony Loyalty, teamwork ability Ennis del Mar: Achiever (3) Marries and has children for the status of it, does not want to look socially different Conflict 2 rushes into the relationship, 3 cannot bring it where it hurts 3’s reputation

  10. Individualist & Helper Tony: Helper (2) His priorities lie with other people, his friends, his lover, his gang Conflict: obsession with one another, which interferes with daily life Maria: Individualist (4) Flamboyant, wants to be noticed and prove her maturity Harmony: 2’s willingness to sacrifice for 4, 4’s ability to sympathize with 2

  11. Perfectionist & Enthusiast Aladdin: Enthusiast (7) Optimistic, chasing royal life, doesn’t mourn being an orphan Harmony: 7 doesn’t expect 1 to conform, 1 judges 7 by her heart. Conflict: 7 lies to 1 in an attempt to seem grander than 7 is, 1 catches 7’s scheme easily Jasmine: Perfectionist (1) Finds the holes in the system, does what she wants

  12. Challenger & investigator Harmony: 5 can calm 8’s negative feelings about being different, 8 is impressed by 5’s resourcefulness Conflict: When he becomes reclusive, 8 is angered Shrek: Investigator (5) Doesn’t do feelings, natural resources, poetic Fiona: Challenger (8) Hot-tempered, motivates to action

  13. Challenger & investigator Belle Beast Investigator (5) Challenger (8) Great presence, lots of anger Prefers books to company Conflict 8’s anger scares 5 away, 5 finds places of solitude to avoid 8 Harmony 8 strongly defends 5, 5 shares knowledge with 8.

  14. Peacemaker & Perfectionist Simba: Peacemaker (9) Nala: Perfectionist (1) “I’ll run away and sing HakunaMatata all day long before I take the throne.” “I win, you lose, stop moping and go do what’s right.” Simba and Nala Harmony Conflict 1 supports 9, 9 plays friendly games with 1 and takes 1 places to make 1happy. 1 is frustrated when 1 cannot spur 9 into action, 9 wants 1 to stop bothering 9.

  15. Peacemaker & Enthusiast Odysseus: Enthusiast (7) & Penelope: Peacemaker (9) Seeking new adventure and pleasure Waits patiently, doesn’t stand up for herself. Conflict: 7 leaves 9 lonely, 9 cannot assert for herself without 7 Harmony: 9 never loses faith in 7, 7 sees 9 as a safehouse to return to when adventure loses flavor.

  16. REFLECTION QUESTION • Answer 3 out of 6 questions in the next slide to earn an optional Bronze credit for ILCP The reflection should be sent to MO PDORAN@CSBSJU.EDU

  17. How do you see the Enneagram types affecting your personal relationships? (It does not have to be a romantic relationship; you can describe how the type affects a friendship or family bond.) • How do you feel your personal Enneagram type affects your viewing of literature and pop culture? • Do you identify with the characters of your type, or do you have a distaste for them? Is this related to similarities or differences they have to your personality? • How does the knowledge of the Enneagram field of study in general affect the way you view literature and pop culture? Do you analyze fictional characters by type? How does this change the way you see them? • What other works can you think of where a character's motivations make sense once you figure out that character's type? Think back not only to recreational readings and viewings, but also of materials you read and viewed for class. • Do you see any other personality traits in these characters that differ from those identified?

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