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THE HOME – GOD’S SCHOOL FOR RELATIONSHIPS. PART II. God’s Design for the Home. Genesis 1:26-27 God created man in His image “In Our image” v.26 = in His image v.27 In God’s image = plurality in one Perfect unity in thought and action God is a relational being; God is love 1 John 4:8
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God’s Design for the Home • Genesis 1:26-27 God created man in His image • “In Ourimage” v.26= in Hisimage v.27 • In God’s image = plurality in one • Perfect unityin thought and action • God is a relational being; God is love 1 John 4:8 • Not good that man should be alone 2:18 • Made for oneness of spiritv.23,24 • Expressed in onenessof flesh v.24 Oneness to produce godly children Malachi 2:15
Achieving Oneness of Spirit • Appreciate each other Genesis 2:18-25 • Appreciate yourself as God made you Ephesians 5:21-33; Philippians 4:11 • Make priority clear v.24leave and cleave • Unselfishness is the foundation Eph. 5:25-27 • leave father & mother; cleave to wife • Be transparentv.25 • Self-consciousness builds walls & defensiveness 2 Corinthians 10:3-5 • Our hearts are to be open 2 Cor. 6:11-13
Obstacles to Oneness of Spirit • A strong defense • Shame, guilt, fear, deflection Gen. 3:7-10 • A strong offense Gen. 3:11,17 • Attacking others, blaming others 2 Sam. 6:12-23 • David was excited to bring the ark to Jerusalem • Immodest combination of dance and clothing v.14 • Worshiped with gladnessv.17-18 • Was generousv.19 • Came to bless his house v.20 in a great mood
Obstacles to Oneness of Spirit • Attacking others, blaming others 2 Sam. 6:12-23 • Despite v.16 -> criticism • Bad timing, sarcasmv.20 not Prov. 31:26 • Unfavorable comparison to other men v.20 • God chose me over your dad and your familyv.21 • You ain’t seen nothing yet! v.22 • I’ll do what I want; I don’t care how you feel v.22 • If you don’t like it, I know someone who willv.22 • Permanently ruptured relationship v.23