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Chapter 4. Verbal Communication. Language. The system of symbols (words) that we use to think about and communicate experiences and feelings. The Nature of Language. Language is symbolic Words have multiple meanings Denotative meanings Connotative meanings
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Chapter 4 Verbal Communication
Language The system of symbols (words) that we use to think about and communicate experiences and feelings
The Nature of Language • Language is symbolic • Words have multiple meanings • Denotative meanings • Connotative meanings • Thought informs language and vice versa (cognitive language) • E.G. What is a “good school?”
The Nature of Language • Language is ruled by grammar • Phonological rules • Syntactic rules • Language is bound by context • Would you talk to your grandparents the same way you would talk to your friends?
The Functions of Language • Communication acquisition • Learn words of a language • Learn to use words appropriately and effectivelyin the context of the situation
Functional Communication Competencies • Using language as a means of control • E.G. Verbally abusive relationships • Using language to share information • Using language to express feelings • “I’m tired”, “I’m frustrated”, “I’m starving” • Using language to express creativity • E.G. J.K. Rowling’s “Harry Potter” • Don McLean’s “Vincent” • Using language as a form of ritual • Saying the “right thing” at a wedding reception”
Using Language as a Means of Control Control as a neutral term
Using Language to Share Information Giving and receiving information
Using Language to Express Feelings Sending messages to others to express how we feel about ourselves, about them, or about the situation “Appropriate and effective” requirement
Problems with Language • Abstraction and meaning • High- and Low-level abstractions • “Pick up a pizza tonight” V.S. “Pick up a veggie pizza on wheat crust from Michelangelo's.” • Evasion • Mom: “Where are you going?” • Son: “Just out, Mom!”
Problems with Language cont. • Equivocation • “That’s not an ugly sweater, Honey. It’s… colorful!” • Euphemism • He didn't’t die, he passed away. • Slang/Jargon • Poker Jargon
Problems with Language • Confusing facts, opinions, and inferences • Fact: something true and verifiable • Opinion: personal evaluations • Inferences: conclusions about what we observe
Language in Context • Language reflects context (Have a variety of speech repertoires) • Language builds on context (Adjust language to situation) If you have a good relation with a stepparent, you might call them Mom or Dad • Language determines context (Choose formal / informal language) “Call me Brent”
Relational Context We moderate our language based on the status of our relationships
Situational Context High language: formal, polite, or “mainstream” language Low language: easy going language for more comfortable environments
Cultural Context • Culture, words, and thought • Sapir-Whorf hypothesis
Language in Context • The cultural context (cont.) • Gender and language • Interruptions • Qualifiers, hedges, disclaimers • Tag Questions • Resistance Messages • Geography and language • Accommodation
Language in Context • Technology as Context • When using technology, you must use strong, clear language to make up for lack of nonverbal cues • English has become the language of technology • Acronyms and emoticons can enhance communication