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“I felt ashamed.""But of what? Psyche, they hadn't stripped you naked or anything?""No, no, Maia. Ashamed of looking like a mortal -- of being a mortal.""But how could you help that?""Don't you think the things people are most ashamed of are things they can't help?” ― C.S. Lewis, Till We Have Faces
Shame is… • Deep sense that you are unacceptable because of something you did, something done to you or something associated with you. You feel exposed and humiliated. • Disgrace because you acted less than human, you were treated as if you were less than human, or you were associated with something less than human, and there are witnesses.
Shame is… • Faces turned away • Ignoring/ Hiding • Staring with contempt • Feeling of worthlessness • Exposed failure or fear of it • “You are not acceptable. You are a mistake.” • Public “sin” • Last one picked/ incompetence • Sexual or verbal boundaries violated
You are todistinguish between the holy and the common, and between the unclean and the clean, - Leviticus 10:10 • Unclean are sent typically sent outside the camp. There was a process (going to the tabernacle and offering sacrifices) for being made clean.
Death Idol Worship Unhealthy National Identity
“[W]hen people are ashamed they hold aloof, above all from those nearest to them, and are unreserved with strangers” ― Anton Chekhov, The Portable Chekhov
Clean Unclean Unedible Disgusting Wrong Race Dumb Poor Fat Ugly Law Breaker • Edible • Admired • Right Race • Smart • Rich • Thin • Beautiful • Law Obeyer
Clean is good, normal clean. • Clean is fellowship – a good meal with friends lacking self-consciousness. • Clean is shalom, the Hebrew word meaning peace and order.
Purify Defile
Consecrate Die
Luke 8 • The demon-possessed man • The unclean woman
1. Connect – • 2. Redirect – • 3. Repurpose –
It will take pursuing people. • It will take directing their attention to God away from themselves. • This happens through your acceptance and fellowship.
Clothes • Membership • Roles