Fathers’ Engagement Fatherhood Initiative Mr. Thompson 512-438-4560

1. Fathers’ EngagementFatherhood InitiativeMr. Thompson512-438-4560

2. CRISIS • a condition of instability or danger, as in social, economic, political, or international affairs, leading to a decisive change = crisis

3. Father Fact 97 percent of Americans believe that “fathers are just as important as mothers for the proper development of children.” The United States is the World leader in fatherless families. Source: National Fatherhood Initiative, 2005

4. The Psychological Framework Model

5. FatherFacts • Infant with absent fathers were more likely to be born with lower birth weights, to be preterm and small gestational age. • Regardless of race or ethnicity, the neonatal death rate of father-absent infants was nearly four times that of their counterparts with involved fathers. Source “University of South Florida Health

6. Many of Fathers • They often • Operate from a deficit • Mental Health Issues

7. Brain MatterLay The Track – Turn On/Off The Switches

8. Establish a Root System • His role is to provide a (Cover) safe place for his children to grow • Self Appreciation • Self Respect • Character Building • The Value of Community – Legacy • Ownership – Accountability – Trust • How To Respond To Life Challenges • Life – Death • Peer Pressure HIS VALUE

9. Effective Father Programs • PREVENT • Fathers need to understand the importance of father involvement and the negative consequences children experience though father-loss and inadequate fathering. • PREPARE • Fathers must have the knowledge, skills, and financial resources available to adequately care for their children. • ESTABLISH • Fathers may need guidance through the process of establishing paternity. • INVOLVE • The Child Welfare Professional can facilitate the engagement process by setting the stage for fathers to effectively connect with their children. • Source; University of Pittsburgh School of Social Work

10. A father has the capacity to change the trajectory of his children’s view of the world.

11. What strategies are home visitors using to engage fathers? • 69% explain the benefits of father participation to mothers. • 58% ask mothers how they would like their child’s father to be involved. • 51% explain the benefits of father participation to fathers. When he is here he wants to ask questions and learn and [our visitor] is excellent at giving good answers. – Mother, Dallas Source: Mothers’ Survey on Father Participation in Home Visiting Programs Father Participation in Home Visiting Programs

12. Checking In Before Visit • Identify what you wish to accomplish by engaging the father. • Service Plans • Bring ideas to enhance value • Be prepared to ask him what he wants or thinks

13. What strategies are MORE helpful in increasing father participation? • Scheduling home visits at a time when father is available61.7% said Very Helpful • Providing father with information about father involvement60.4% said Very Helpful • Providing father with information about the value of his.51.3% said Very Helpful • Inviting father to participate during doctor’s visits49.4% said Very Helpful Source: Mothers’ Attitudes Survey

14. Barriers systems Source: University of South Florida Health

15. Engagement Strategies • Reflect on his past and current experiences • Inquire some about his family dynamics; including who raised him. • What was the relationship like with his own father (or stepfather and mother’s boyfriend)? • Would you like your child’s life to be like - “the same as yours or different?” • What kind of father do you want to be? Value The Venue of Engagement

16. Engagement Opportunities • First contact between the agency and the non-resident father is a unique opportunity to establish positive strength-based relationship. • A meaningful first contact between father and caseworker can set the stage for frequent, ongoing, high-quality interactions that ultimately benefit the child. • A father’s feeling of low self-worth was a barrier to initiating work with agencies (WIC). • A father should feel comfortable, respected, or valued in their dealing with the child welfare system. • Connect with mother to ensure she understands his value to her children • The Source, Spring 2009 Volume 19, No.1

17. Rationale Behind Questioning • Let father know, the rationale for the questioning • How often do you find fun things to do with your family? • Tell me about a time your child witness you handling a stressful situation without things getting out of control. • How often do you read to the your spouse/partner? • Source Insoo Kim Berg Family Preservation

18. Disproportionality Studies suggest that fathers’ involvement in permanency planning has the potential to help reduce this disproportionate number of children of color in foster care. Disproportionality Father Engagement Source: ScienceDirect (Children & Youth Services Review 30 (2008) 404-417

19. Outcomes • Remind fathers of the likely outcomes for their children when is engaged • School age children of involved fathers • Are better academic achievers • Are more likely to perform better a standardize test • Are less likely to be involve with the judicial system • Are less likely to be a teen parent • Are more likely to view father as a role model

20. The Hole in the Soul • The title implies a loss, a leak in someone that is about to go flat or empty. • It suggests that you must become aware of the impact or damage that is about to occur. • The longer we wait to take action to repair the hole the greater that damage being done. • The word “Soul” means a focus on something higher than what we would think about. • The idea is making the point of loss and how it makes us incomplete in our relationships with our children. • It suggest a conscience level of awareness to do what is right. Source: Dr. Clarence Bibby

21. Kenneth D. Thompson Fatherhood Program Specialist 512-438-4560 Kenneth.thompson@dfps.state.tx.us

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