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Boundaries for Prayer Supporters (Click to start). DAP 11. Why are BOUNDARIES necessary for Prayer Supporters when phoning callers?. Sin has impacted all people * Physically * Psychologically * Spiritually Vulnerable Know yourself - Know humanity -Know God.
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Boundaries for Prayer Supporters (Click to start) DAP 11
Why are BOUNDARIES necessary for Prayer Supporters when phoning callers? • Sin has impacted all people • * Physically • * Psychologically • * Spiritually • Vulnerable • Know yourself • - Know humanity • -Know God
What are the BOUNDARIES for Prayer Supporters when phoning callers? • Clear Boundaries • Protection for • - Prayer Supporter and Caller • Must agree • Mainly when Caller Shares
BOUNDARIES for Prayer Supporters • Representative • Of Church • Of God • Of HOW to pray
BOUNDARIES for Prayer Supporters • ACCOUNTABILITY: • Debriefing • Prayer for discernment
BOUNDARIES for Prayer Supporters • A MINISTRY • - not Counselling • Starts with right attitude • - Warm, friendly, caring. • Intercession • All kinds of people will request 1. A Ministry
BOUNDARIES for Prayer Supporters • REFER • - Share your observation • - Indicate appropriate help • - Inform of your limits • - Suggest appropriate contact • - Leave them to act • - Ask for feedback • - Assure of your prayers • REFER 1. A Ministry 2. Refer
BOUNDARIES for Prayer Supporters • REFER . . . Cont • National number • 13 11 14 • Other local resources 1. A Ministry 2. Refer
BOUNDARIES for Prayer Supporters • 3. AVOID UNDUE FAMILIARITY • Don’t give phone number • Bar against phone-back by – • * Turn off Caller ID • * 1831 + • First name only 1. A Ministry 2. Refer 3. Avoid Undue Familiarity
BOUNDARIES for Prayer Supporters • 4. NEVER ARGUE • Jesus example • Paul’s practice • Listen • Change topic – or terminate 1. A Ministry 2. Refer 3. Avoid Undue Familiarity 4. Never Argue
BOUNDARIES for Prayer Supporters • 5. DUTY TO REPORT • Required by law • * Paedophilia • * Suicide • Inform caller • Phone numbers - police and Doctor • Inform your pastor • Be accountable 1. A Ministry 2. Refer 3. Avoid Undue Familiarity 4. Never Argue 5. Duty to Report
BOUNDARIES for Prayer Supporters • 6. FOLLOW UP PRAYER • Inform of personal prayer • Request permission to call back • Jesus and persistent prayer • Be sensitive 1. A Ministry 2. Refer 3. Avoid Undue Familiarity 4. Never Argue 5. Duty to Report 6. Follow up Prayer
BOUNDARIES for Prayer Supporters • 7. CONFIDENTIALITY • Callers trust you • With name and need • Records in safe place • Old records shredded • Emails deleted totally • In support situations too • NO Interest List 1. A Ministry 2. Refer 3. Avoid Undue Familiarity 4. Never Argue 5. Duty to Report 6. Follow up Prayer 7. Confidentiality
BOUNDARIES for Prayer Supporters • CONCLUSION . . . • For your protection • Few, brief and reasonable • Must agree • Helpful resources: • Reading: • “Boundaries” by Cloud, Henry & Townsend, John; Grand Rapids, MI, Zondervan Publishing House, 1992 • Viewing: • The series of tapes or DVD’s on workshops held by the same authors based on the book, “Boundaries” 1. A Ministry 2. Refer 3. Avoid Undue Familiarity 4. Never Argue 5. Duty to Report 6. Follow up Prayer 7. Confidentiality
BOUNDARIES for Prayer Supporters 1. A Ministry 2. Refer 3. Avoid Undue Familiarity 4. Never Argue 5. Duty to Report 6. Follow up Prayer 7. Confidentiality Questions?