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Dating to… Marriage to… PARENTHOOD?. Is this the correct order? When do we draw the line?. Dating to Marriage. Love or Infatuation… Love = … Infatuation = …. Love or Infatuation?. …is marked by a feeling of insecurity …you are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy.
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Dating to…Marriage to… PARENTHOOD? Is this the correct order? When do we draw the line?
Dating to Marriage • Love or Infatuation… • Love = … • Infatuation = …
Love or Infatuation? …is marked by a feeling of insecurity …you are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy
Love or Infatuation? …has an element of sexual excitement …if you are honest, you will admit it is difficult to be in one another’s company unless you are sure it will end in intimacy
Love or Infatuation? …is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection …you want the person near to you
Love or Infatuation? …is the maturation of friendship …means trust …makes you optimistic …makes you think ahead
Love or Infatuation? …lacks confidence …when you are away from each other you wonder if the person is being faithful to you …might lead you to do things you regret later
Dating to Marriage • Marriage - a commitment [a promise or a pledge] • Understand the relationship in all 3 aspects of your health • Marriage requires emotional MATURITY
Teen Marriage • Most teens are still struggling to find their own identity and set goals for the future • 60% of all teen marriages end in divorce • Statistics show a high probability that a teen marriage will end with in the first 5 years
Marriage to Parenthood • Parenting – providing protection, food, clothing, shelter, education, medical, guidance, instilling values, setting limits, & giving unconditional love • Unconditional love – love without limitations; showing love at ALL times
Teen Parenthood • Parenting is challenging and difficult at any stage in life • Teens may choose to put their baby up for adoption or raise the child themselves
Teen Parenthood • Consequences – • Financial difficulties • Restrictions on educational and career plans • Emotional stress • Limitations on social and personal life
Are you ready to be a PARENT? What are you gaining with having a child? What are you loosing with having a child?
16 & Pregnant http://www.itsyoursexlife.com/iysl/videos/mtvs-16-and-pregnant---trailer How would you handle it?