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He might be a fictional character, but a quote has never been so relevant in this world. The world moves so fast, people assume your entire personality based on the first impression you leave.
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Ways to Create the Perfect First Impression “First impressions last. You start behind the eighth ball; you’ll never get in front.” - Harvey Specter (fictional character) He might be a fictional character, but a quote has never been so relevant in this world. The world moves so fast, people assume your entire personality based on the first impression you leave. It’s important to always do your homework whenever you’re starting a new chapter in your life or about to meet someone new. A simple hack of doing that homework is assuming everything’s a job interview. How do you prepare for a job interview? You go through the company website to learn everything about their business, you try to get as thorough as possible, with your own professional involvements and you prepare yourself for the worst possible questions. When you’ve planned all of this and are well prepared for an interview, the interviewers know exactly the kind of person they’re getting involved with and the whole process usually goes well. Even after you do get the job, how you have the perfect first impression is talking to the Human Resources manager about the type of people you’d be working with. You do all of this so you get along well with the employees and make your job a happy place. It’s the same with creating a first impression everywhere. You try to foresee events and the different possible outcomes and be prepared for whatever comes. Faking it should never be an option. If it comes to a point where you’ll have to fake your behavior to create a first good impression, the actual event shouldn’t even be considered, as it’s asking you to be someone you’re not. There’s a very big difference with being prepared and faking it. Being prepared means being who you are with a little bit of additional knowledge on what to say/do and what not to say/do. It also involves with how you present yourself. It’s usually different for different occasions. For instance, if it’s a job interview, you present yourself as formally and neatly as possible, but if you dress that way when www.thehouseofsasha.com
you’re meeting a few friends after years of no contact, they’ll simply assume you to have become weird. A first impression is absolutely important and it is one thing, in life, that presents itself over and over again, as we’re always doing new things. If you’re a boyfriend/girlfriend about to meet your girlfriend’s/ boyfriend’s family for the first time, there are a lot of things running in your head. It gets even worse when it happens to be someone’s birthday. If it’s the younger brother’s (still in high school) birthday and all you know is he loves painting, you have to consider a gift related to that –something that he’d make use of, almost every day. So, the ideal thing to do would be to go through an online stationery store and look for interesting and fancy- looking items. That, with a box of chocolates or toys would be perfect. That would give you the key to getting along with him, well. If it happens to be someone you meet on an online dating site, you pay attention to the smallest details. If she mentions being a perfectionist who’s professionally into home décor, you start to think about your gift, on those lines. A scented candles gift set might do the trick or perhaps something else. The point is, to always be prepared. A perfect first impression makes the rest of the journey a happy and smooth one. www.thehouseofsasha.com