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THE NOTHOS SYNDROME. Before we begin. 2. Lets look at a true son. Spirit of Sonship. 3. “Christ was faithful as a Son over His house” (Hebrews 3:6) You can only be a Father if you are a Son. Example of a true son, Timothy. 4.
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Before we begin... 2 Lets look at a true son
Spirit of Sonship 3 • “Christ was faithful as a Son over His house”(Hebrews 3:6) • You can only be a Father if you are a Son.
Example of a true son, Timothy 4 • A genuine son embraces and cares for the concerns of his father. Philippians 2:20. • A son is not self-centred. Philippians 2:21 • A son serves his father. Philippians 2:22 • A son serving his father is compared in this passage with serving Christ. Philippians 2:21,22 • A son can be sent to represent the father. Philippians 2:19, 1 Corinthians 4:16,17 • A son reproduces himself. 2 Timothy 2:2
Exposing the Nothos Syndrome in our lives “Christ was faithful as a Son over His house” (Hebrews 3:6) 5
Nothos 6 • ‘Nothos denotes an illegitimate child, one born out of lawful wedlock.’ • But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons. (Hebrews 12:8, AV)
Roots of the Nothos Syndrome 7 • Unsure of/Loss of identity • Loss of father • Dysfunctional father; absent, distant, disinterested • Abusive father; verbal, physical, emotional, sexual, spiritual • Misunderstanding • Wrong teaching • Poor or incorrect example set by church leaders/parents • Self-centredness • Immaturity • Trauma
Group One: Spirit of a Hireling 8 • “He who is a hireling, and not a shepherd, who is not the owner of the sheep, beholds the wolf coming, and leaves the sheep and flees, and the wolf snatches them, and scatters them.” (John 10:12) • “He flees because he is a hireling, and is not concerned about the sheep.” (John 10:13)
Identifying a Hireling Spirit 9 • Works for a wage. • Institution mentality. • Comfortable commitment. • Disappears under pressure. • Not whole-hearted • My way • Takes offence, gives criticism • Reasons from part to whole • Correction • Finds it easy to leave
Group Two: Spirit of an Orphan 10 • The root for the Hebrew word 'orphan' means 'to be lonely'. • Example of an orphan spirit, Ishmael. Genesis 16:3-12; Genesis 21:9,10.
Defining an Orphan Spirit 11 • Independence and self-reliance. • Live by the Love of Law. • Insecure and lacking peace. • Strives for man's approval. • Motivated by need for personal achievement. • Christian disciplines are a duty. • Holiness brings God's favour. • Opinion of self derived from comparison with others.
Defining an Orphan Spirit 12 • Comfort sought in counterfeit affections. • Threatened by peers. • Exposing of other's faults to improve own standing. • Find it difficult to receive admonition. • Conditional expression of love. • Walks in condition of bondage. • Spiritual ambition to achieve and be seen and counted among the mature. • Attitude to the future is fight for what you can get.
Group Three: Spirit of Slavery 13 • So then brethren, we are not children of the bondwoman, but of the free woman. (Galatians 4:31)
Identifying a spirit of slavery Sonship Slavery 14 • Parentage Free woman and Father God • Covenant; Hebrews 12:22-24 Mount Zion – New Covenant • Basis of acceptance Promise • Inheritance Heir to all the Father has • Timescale; John 8:35 Permanent, the son stays forever • Parentage • Bond-woman and Satan • Covenant; Hebrews 12:22-24 • Mount Sinai – Moses' Law • Basis of acceptance • Works • Inheritance • None • Timescale; John 8:35 • Temporary, the slave does not remain in the house
Identifying a spirit of slavery Sonship Slavery 15 • Yoke; Matthew 11:29-30 Light, easy • Attitude Peace and rest • Characteristic feeling; Life, hope and confidence • Depth of relationship Rom 8:15 Intimate • Assurance of salvation Certain • Yoke; Matthew 11:29-30 • Heavy, burdensome • Attitude • Lack of peace, always work to be done • Characteristic feeling; • Death, hopelessness and fear • Depth of relationship • Superficial • Assurance of salvation • None
Identifying a spirit of slavery Sonship examples Slavery examples 16 • Jacob • Abel • Paul • Onesimus • Esau • Cain • Saul • Onesimus
Group Three: Spirit of Slavery 17 • Watch out for the warning signs. • Has serving the Lord or serving in the church has become a duty or a chore? • For you have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption by which we cry, Abba, Father! (Romans 8:15)
Dealing with the Nothos Spirit Spiritual orphans, hirelings and slaves do not have legal rights to the inheritance. 18
Dealing with the roots 19 • Loss of father. Fathering. Understanding that God is Father to the fatherless. • Father of the fatherless and a judge for the widows, is God in His holy habitation. (Psalm 68:5). • Dysfunctional father; absent, distant, disinterested. Fathering. Forgiveness and healing. Understanding the character of God. • Abusive father; verbal, physical, emotional, sexual, spiritual. Fathering. Forgiveness and healing.
Dealing with the roots 20 • Misunderstanding. Fathering. Equipping and teaching the truth. • Wrong teaching. Fathering. Correction. • Poor or incorrect example set by church leaders/parents. Fathering. Forgiveness and equipping. • Self-centredness. Repentance. Fathering. • Trauma. Fathering. Healing, equipping and restoration.
Dealing with the Nothos Spirit 21 • Approach your life from a godly perspective • But to this one I will look, to the afflicted and contrite spirit, and the one who trembles at My Word. (Isaiah 66:2) • Acceptance • Confession and repentance • Receive forgiveness • Walk out the heart's decision • Walk in your inheritance