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TOO MUCH INFORMATION. HOW WHAT YOU SAY WILL EFFECT YOUR RELATIONS. TOO MUCH INFORMATION. = WHEN SOME ONE DISCLOSES TOO MUCH GIVEN THE RELATIONSHIP. The amount of personal information we can handle , depends on the relationship we have with the one sharing it. .
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TOO MUCH INFORMATION HOW WHAT YOU SAY WILL EFFECT YOUR RELATIONS
TOO MUCH INFORMATION = WHEN SOME ONE DISCLOSES TOO MUCH GIVEN THE RELATIONSHIP
The amount of personalinformation we canhandle, dependson the relationship we have with the onesharing it.
Rule of thumb: the closer, the more info • Interestingforbothparties • Follow the socialnormsthatexistbetween the parties
THE FACE THEORY • WE HAVE A REASON WITH MOST THINGS WE SAY. • … BUT WE ALWAYS TAKE EACH OTHERS ‘FACE’ INTO ACCOUNT Aspects of face: respect, equality, personalspace
CHANGING THE BORDERS OF WHAT WE CAN SAY TO EACH OTHER, CHANGES THE RELATION. • … AND THE OTHER WAY ROUND - intimacy - impression management
Whatabout the social media?! • We experience ‘informationfriction’ Breaking: in research nocorrelation was foundbetweenprovidingpersonal info online and a lack of concern for privacy • ‘stranger-on-the-train-effect’ (urban legend?) • Impression Management To the Max!!