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Life Works, Character Counts and the Friends of the Blake Library Present Teen Talk

Life Works, Character Counts and the Friends of the Blake Library Present Teen Talk Speaker: Susan Dockerill Founder of Life Works Parenting Tools. Teen Talk. Relationship Communication New Direction. RELATIONSHIP. Nothing Works if the Relationship doesn’t work. POWER.

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Life Works, Character Counts and the Friends of the Blake Library Present Teen Talk

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  1. Life Works, Character Counts and the Friends of the Blake Library Present Teen Talk Speaker: Susan Dockerill Founder of Life Works Parenting Tools

  2. Teen Talk Relationship Communication New Direction

  3. RELATIONSHIP • Nothing Works if the Relationship doesn’t work.

  4. POWER Power Over Blame Others Angry Power Under Blame Self Guilt/Permissive Personal Power Take 100% Responsibility Empowered In Control of Your Life

  5. FEAR • False • Evidence • Appearing • Real

  6. ACT A Way of behaving when things don’t go your way. 3 to 5 years old

  7. PAST • Being right Attitude It’s not my fault • Fighting Anger Out of Control • Blame No Responsibility Life’s Unfair • Lying No trust I didn’t do it • Fear Anxiety Depression • Arguments Hurt I hate you!

  8. Moralize Lecture Humiliate Interrupt Calling names ignoring Punishing Sarcasm Comparing to others Rescuing Assuming Making her feel guilty Feeling Stoppers

  9. If nothing changes the future will resemble the past.

  10. RELATIONSHIP • Re-Establish The Relationship • Focus on what you want to have happen in the relationship. • Clean up your part in why the relationship doesn’t work • What are you attached to? • What are you committed to?

  11. Feeling Encouragers • Listen Intently “What Else” • Be Curious “Tell me some more” Then what happened?” • Validate Feelings “ I can see you are really upset about this” • Empathy “If I were you I’d feel the same way”

  12. Communication • How People Perform Correlates to how the situation occurs to them. • How a situation occurs includes your view of the past (Why things are the way they are) and the future (where all this is going) • Our actions relate to how the world occurs to us, not to the way it actually is.

  13. If nothing changes the future will resemble the past.

  14. RACKETS • Complaint • Act • Pay Off • Cost

  15. Cell Phone IPOD Computer MY SPACE Being popular Not looking stupid Grades Computer TV Sex Clothes Weight Sports Friends Skateboarding Drugs and Drinking Attatatchments

  16. What will happen if nothing changes?

  17. If nothing changes the future will resemble the past.

  18. Learn How To Live Powerfully and Love the Life You Live! Redirecting Children/Teen Behavior • RCB BOOK and Workbook • 5 Thursday Evenings • 7:00 9:00pm • May 21, 28 June 4,11,18

  19. NOW • WORD

  20. What if you could learn how to communicate in a way… • Touch • Move • Inspire

  21. Cell Phone IPOD Computer MY SPACE Being popular Not looking stupid Grades Computer TV Sex Clothes Weight Sports Friends Skateboarding Drugs and Drinking Attatatchments

  22. Word +Action = New Possibilities

  23. NOW • WORD

  24. Peace in your home Love Forgiving Taking Care of Yourself Friendship Financial Freedom Mutual Respect Happiness Listening Love Caring Keeping your word Living your dream Responsibility Commitment

  25. RELATIONSHIP • Re-Establish The Relationship • Focus on what you want to have happen in the relationship. • Clean up your part in why the relationship doesn’t work • What are you attached to? • What are you committed to?

  26. TeensUniteUSA.COM • New Possibility • Website • Connecting Teens to Careers • Volunteer hours • Peer Teen Coaching • Teen Tutoring

  27. NEW POSSIBILITES • What is possible for you after tonight’s seminar? • What are you committed to? • What action will you take to keep this going?

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