Motivation:

1. Motivation: What directs and energizes your behavior? Lecture 12 3/8/04

2. The Pyramid of Human Motivation

3. Self Actualization Need to live up to one’s fullest and unique potential

4. Happy, absorbed, capable of greatness • “Think about the most wonderful experiences of your life; happiest moments, ecstatic moments, moments of rapture, perhaps from being in love, or from listening to music, or suddenly being hit by a book or a painting or some great creative moment.”

5. Peak Experiences • Open to new experiences, spontaneous, playful, loving, creative, self-accepting, energetic…

6. FLOW: An activity totally absorbs one’s focus Forget normal worries & self-consciousness Lose track of time Feel confident & clear-headed Emerge with sense of satisfaction & growth

7. Esteem Needs = Power & Achievement • accomplish difficult tasks, outperform others, and excel • acquire prestige and influence over other people

9. Motive Arousal: Typical Stories Written

10. Establish, maintain, further relationships

11. Energy, attention, stimulation, information & emotional support • When? • Stress, fear, embarrassment??? • HIGH: “These shocks will hurt…In research of this sort, if we’re to learn anything at all that will really help humanity, it’s necessary that our shocks be intense” • LOW: “I assure you that what you will feel will not in any way be painful. It will resemble a tickle or a tingle more than anything unpleasant” “10 minute delay” • Do you want to wait: alone, w/ others, no preference?

12. Do we always want to be with others? • Not just anyone will do • P’s preferred to be alone than w/ students not in study Stress doesn’t always motivate affiliation… • Embarrassment: Sucking on large nipples and pacifiers… • P’s preferred to be alone than with others • Naturalistic study: waiting for open heart surgery • Prefer post-operative than pre-operative room-mate

13. “We won! They lost!” • Students wear more university-affiliated apparel after varsity football wins • Conducting a survey of student knowledge of campus issues… • Can you tell me the outcome of that game? • Win: 32% • Loss: 18%

14. One step further… Human sexual feelings and behaviors are powerful motivational forces

15. Evolutionary Psychology: an explanation Gender differences in mate preference are a product of natural selection • Favored mating behaviors that promote the conception, birth and survival of offspring • Men & women attracted to different characteristics and have different strategies

16. Men Possibility to father unlimited # of children Rely on external cues like attractiveness to serve as guide for youth, & good health Women Careful selection of mate with resources for well-being Value commitment, health, ambition, financial security Ensuring reproductive success

17. Men’s values Physical attractiveness “good looks” Being older than spouse Low hip to waist ratio Women’s values Socioeconomic status “good financial prospects” “ambition and industriousness” Being younger than spouse The dating marketplace: in 37 countries (N = 10,047)

18. Dev Singh Video

19. Big Misconception • Only thing that defines body = weight • SHAPE is not captured • Mind is designed to look for health based on LOCATION of fat, not just Fat vs. Skinny • 1991 Singh developed series of figures from .7 to 1.0

20. Ideal Body Image • Which image is ideal for your sex? • Which comes closest to your own body?

21. Sex differences in perceptions of desirable body shape

22. Another problem with dieting: The “what the hell effect”