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Coping with Crises and Adversities. Michael Ungar, Ph.D. School of Social Work, Dalhousie University Michael.Ungar@dal.ca www.michaelungar.com www.resilienceproject.org. Characteristics of RESILIENT Individuals. Individual Interpersonal Family Community Culture.
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Coping with Crises and Adversities Michael Ungar, Ph.D. School of Social Work, Dalhousie University Michael.Ungar@dal.ca www.michaelungar.com www.resilienceproject.org
Characteristics of RESILIENT Individuals • Individual • Interpersonal • Family • Community • Culture
Labels given to High-risk Youth by community/families • Loser • Charity case • Brat • Stupid • Victim • Slut • Drop-out • Thief • Little f—er
Conduct disordered Parentified A.D.H.D Depressed Suicidal Borderline Antisocial Bi-polar Emotionally disturbed Dysfunctional Resistant Lacking impulse control Difficult Labels given to High-risk Youth by professionals
Leader Tough Gang member Dealer Sexy Survivor Stud Street kid Helper Drinker Fighter Labels High-risk Youth prefer
Option One 4C’s: Competent, Caring, Contributors to Community Option Two 4D’s: Dangerous, Delinquent, Deviant and Disordered behaviour Pathways to Resilience
Conventional and Unconventional Pathways to Resilience Four “Pro-social” C’s Four “Problem” D’s D D C C Child D D C C “Conventional” Pathways to Resilience “Unconventional” Pathways to Resilience Substitution
Messages we need to hear • “You belong” • “You’re trustworthy” • “You’re responsible” • “You’re capable”
Protection Strategies • Find good things to say about yourself • e.g. bolster self-esteem and personal sense of power • Change the impact of problems • e.g. mentorship, move away from violence, find social support • Prevent negative chain reactions • e.g. parental monitoring, physical health, nutrition • Open up opportunities • e.g. culturally relevant education, access services, employment