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What Makes a REAL Friend. Radical Spiritual Friendship. TNT 2006. What makes someone a good friend ?. What do you like best about your BFF?.
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What Makes a REAL Friend Radical Spiritual Friendship TNT 2006
What do you like best about your BFF? “My best-friend Alicia is the best because I can trust her with my life! She's always there for me and I can talk to her about anything. She's really good for advice.” --Ashley “I can tell my best-friend anything and she always helps me when I am sad!” --Rachel “The thing I like most about my best-friend is that she is really nice to me all the time.” --Amber “I have two best-friends and they stick with me all the time.” --Sara
What do you like best about your best-friend? “My best-friend Alicia is the best because I can trust her with my life! She's always therefor me and I can talk to her about anything. She's really good for advice.” --Ashley “I can tell my best-friend anything and she always helps me when I am sad!” --Rachel “The thing I like most about my best-friend is that she is really nice to me all the time.” --Amber “I have two best-friends and they stick with me all the time.” --Sara
Friends Serve Me! • How can I get people to like me? • How can I get what I want from my friends? • How can I convince my friends that I am right? FRIENDSHIP IS ABOUT ME!!
NO, IT’S NOT! • Friendship is about BEING a good friend! • Learn how to GIVE to others • You meet their needs • Care for them (no matter what) • A whole life of loving people
Radical Spiritual Friendship • God commands us to love others... • we can because of Jesus • 1 John 4:19 • John 5:12-14
Jonathan + David • Friendship based on commitment to God • David trusted God – killed Goliath • Jon trusted God – killed 20 soldiers + drove away an entire army • 1 Samuel 18:1-4 • Let nothing come between them • Drew closer when tested (1 Samuel 20:31-34) • Friends ‘til end (1 Samuel 20:42)
Learning to Love • It’s a PROCESS! • Are you willing to put your friend first? • Prov 27:6 – “faithful are wounds of a friend” • Are you willing to bear your friends burdens? • Gal 6:2 “bear one another’s burdens, and thus fulfill the law of Christ.” • If you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them (John 13:17)