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Pre Marital Preparation. Presented By JC Lallawmsang. About Pre Marital Preparation. What Is Pre Marital Preparation? Is a training through courses , seminars , or counselling that prepares couples for a successful marriage.

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Presented By JC Lallawmsang

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  1. Pre Marital Preparation Presented By JC Lallawmsang

  2. About Pre Marital Preparation What Is Pre Marital Preparation? Is a training through courses, seminars, or counsellingthat prepares couples for a successful marriage. Training often focuses on developing skills such ascommunication, handling conflict, solving problems, and making decisions. It might also include help in developing the knowledge,attitudes, expectations, and characteristics that are important to creating a satisfying relationship.

  3. Short Definition of Pre Marital Preparation Premarital Preparation is a class or series of classes that both members of an engaged couple participate in prior to their wedding that involves learning conflict resolution and communication skills.

  4. "The secret to having a good marriage is to understand that marriage must be total, it must be permanent, and it must be equal.“… Frank Pittman Issues regard • •Most couples face their most • serious top ten problem areas: • Balancing job and family • • Frequency of sexual relations • • Debt brought into marriage • • Husband's employment • • Finances • • Expectations in household tasks • • Constant bickering • • Communication with spouse • • Problems with parents or in-laws • • Lack of time spent together

  5. Marriage can be one of life's sweetest ventures, but it is also one of the riskiest. Sometimes love just isn't enough to keep a couple together. If marriage is a Journey, who has the map?

  6. Purpose of Pre Marital Preparation To help each partner assess his or her personal readiness for marriage. To strengthen the couple's commitment to each other It can also help couples become aware of the assets and liabilities of their relationship, which are important factors in deciding who and when to marry. As they evaluate these factors, couples have a chance to slow things down and think seriously about their relationship. In other words, premarital education allows couples to plan their marriage rather than just a wedding. Developing skills in the areas of: communication, friendship, commitment to the relationship, intimacy, and problem solving. Resolving conflicts in mutually acceptable ways, and giving and receiving affection

  7. Benefits of Marriage Preparation They report improved communication, better conflict management skills, higher dedication to one's mate, greater emphasis on the positive aspects of a relationship, and improved overall relationship quality. Marriage preparation can help prevent divorce Premarital counselling experience set the stage for understanding, kindness, consideration, friendship, and sharing A major benefit of premarital counselling is that couples establish a relationship with someone they can consult to help them solve marital problems later on if needed (Stanley, 2001, p. 275). Some realize he or she is not the right person to marry helps couples identify one another's expectations.

  8. Deciding Which Type of Premarital Education Is Best for You • Am I less self-motivated and/or do I learn best by listening to others (an "audible" learner)? If yes, a pre-marriage seminar or pre-marital counsellor may be your best option. • Do I enjoy reading and/or am I a visual learner? If yes, reading books and completing an online relationship evaluation may be a good choice. • Do I want my preparation to have a religious component? If yes, talk with a member of your clergy to see what programs your church provides. Written by Jeremy Boyle, Research Assistant, and edited by Stephen F. Duncan, Professor, School of Family Life, Brigham Young University.

  9. References http://foreverfamilies.byu.edu/Article.aspx?a=148 http://marriage.about.com/od/premaritaltests/a/questionstoask.htm

  10. Now Marry THANK YOU Queries And Comments

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