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Private Victory To Public Victory. End in Mind for PTP. Transition from “me” to “we” Emotional bank account Types of organizations Investing in each other. Private Victory to Public Victory. P. 79. 79. Get it right with “Me” Before get it right with “We”. Trust. Trustworthiness.
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Private Victory To Public Victory
End in Mind for PTP • Transition from “me” to “we” • Emotional bank account • Types of organizations • Investing in each other
Private Victoryto Public Victory P. 79 79
Get it right with “Me” Before get it right with “We”
Trust Trustworthiness The Maturity Continuum Achieving results while working with others Self- Discipline & follow through 80 Private Victory to Public Victory
Emotional Bank Account The Emotional BankAccount 82 Private Victory to Public Victory
Video EBA One Cartoon at a Time
The Emotional Bank Account • Deposits • Seek first to understand. • Show kindness, courtesy, respect. • Keep promises. • Be loyal to the absent. • Set clear expectations. • Apologize. • Give feedback(“I” messages). • Forgive. • Withdrawals • Assume you understand. • Show unkindness, discourtesy, disrespect. • Break promises. • Be disloyal, badmouth. • Create unclear expectations. • Be proud and arrogant. • Give no feedbackor evaluate character (“you” messages). • Hold grudges. 82 Private Victory to Public Victory
VideoPay It Forward A Soldier and a Gold Star Kid
Traditional- conventional, hierarchy, professional isolation 2. Congenial- friendly social interactions & professional isolation 3. Collegial- purposeful interactions creating uplifting climate 3 Types of Organizations
Think About… Which type of organization do you want to be a part of? What can you do to make Orange Elementary that kind of an organization?
Invest in each other “The nature of the relationships among the adults who inhabit a school has more to do with its quality, character, and the accomplishments of its pupils than any other factor.” -Roland Barth
More deposits= Higher Trust 5:1 rule
Ready, Set, Reflect …. Write! What are 5 ways YOU could make deposits to create an uplifting climate at Orange?
Modeling: An EBA Strategy • Proactive language • Patience • Forgiveness (PRE) • Encouragement • Appropriate humor • Manners • Follow through • Keeping a promise • Honoring other’s time • Teachable moments • Put the phone down! • Use 7 Habits Language • Model leadership • Greetings • Good eye contact • Firm handshakes • Attentively listening • Random acts of kindness • Smiling • Positivity • Compliments
VIDEO Kid President
Food for thought… Everyone is watching how you treat the least desirable/most challenging person. EVERY WORD and ACTION contributes to your classroom/school culture.
Envision and Plan Privately, consider two people • Student • Colleague Generate specific ideas for how you will give deposits this coming school year What deposits do you COMMIT to doing over the next week? Month?