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Marr iage. Family Sociology. Marriage. With all the possibilities and popularity of cohabitation, why do people get married? Requires a long-term public commitment Fulfills social norms, such as expectation of parents, friends, relatives
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Marriage Family Sociology
Marriage • With all the possibilities and popularity of cohabitation, why do people get married? • Requires a long-term public commitment • Fulfills social norms, such as expectation of parents, friends, relatives • Married couples get legal rights and privileges reserved for spouses
Marriage • With all the possibilities and popularity of cohabitation, why do people get married? • Allows for emotional investment with reduced risk of abandonment • Increases the probability that children raised by two parents • Marriage is a social institution that confers legality on a relationship
Marriage • With all the possibilities and popularity of cohabitation, why do people get married? • Traditionally marriage has been an integral part of a sequence of the life course and a key event in the life course. • Marriage used to be connected to such things such as: • Leaving parental home • Position in the labor market • A regular sex life • Parenthood • Marriage has fewer effects on these things, so it becomes more acceptable not to marry/ marry/ or divorce
Marriage • Age of marriage has increased considerably • This related to several other changes: 1) Rise in cohabitation. 2) Technological advances in contraceptives 3) Increases in educational attainment, esp. for women 4) Increased female labor force participation
Generation Y is postponing Marriage • A new study by the Pew Research Center is discussed in an article in the Christian Science Monitor • http://www.csmonitor.com/USA/Society/2012/0213/Modern-romance-Gen-Y-is-late-to-the-wedding-but-wants-marriage • Note that Andrew Cherlin, whose research we have read, is quoted and how journalism blends anecdotal stories with real research.
According to Julian Sanchez in your book: • Stephanie Coontz argues that one women, one man idea of marriage is a new one. • She argues LOVE partnered with marriage was an 18th century invention • See assignment on marriage: what were some of the other types of marriages in ancient times?
Marriage Market • Sociologists often study marriage in terms of the marriage market • Thinking is similar to the employment market • There are 3 components to this “marriage market” • Supply – who is available • Preferences – preferred characteristics • Resources – individual characteristics that are attractive to others
Marriage Market • The concept of the marriage market is that unmarried individuals search for spouses with an acceptable set of desired characteristics • What are some of these desired characteristics? • Propinquity (Proximity) • Religion • Education • Class • Race
Marriage Market • Proximity – where ones lives. • Proximity is important as you actually have to come into contact with someone to meet them and start dating – A study in 1958 showed that people most like to marry lived within 2-3 miles of each other. • Proximity still makes sense because neighborhoods are usually stratified by class, ethnicity, and race. • The importance of proximity is weakening, especially with advances in communication like the internet, but still has some effect (according to more recent studies).
Recent Polls on how/where people met their spouses • The Harris Interactive/eHarmony study was conducted through a nationwide online survey using a representative sample of 7,135 Americans aged 20-54 who were married between April 1, 2006 and March 31, 2007. • 4.8% of all new marriages in the United States, resulted from eHarmony • Another new dataset is called: How Couples Meet and Stay Together (HCMST) survey • 18 percent of the surveyed married or committed couples met at work, just 14 percent met in school or college • Source: http://download.eharmony.com/pdf/Harris-09-Executive-Summary.pdf
How Couples Meet Source:Meeting Online: The Rise of the Internet as a Social Intermediary Rosenfeld, 2010. PAA presentation.
Marriage Market • Education:women are becoming more educated so the old pattern of men marrying a wife with less education is no longer the norm. • But similar education is preferred, particularly because more education often means more earning potential, and this is now preferred by both men & women • Educational attainment may also reflect social class.
Education and Marriage • In a reversal of long term marital patterns: • college-educated young adults are MORE likely than young adults without a college degree to have married by age 30
The college-marriage gap has closed • Today college-educated are as likely to marry as the non-college educated
Marriage Market • Class: most people marry within their social class (measured by their occupation or their parents’ occupation). • Many people seek to marry up – this is called hypergamy • Hypergamy is defined as: marrying up in social status. • Women more likely to marry up, men down.
Marriage Market • Race: most marry within their racial group • In the past -- laws against inter-racial marriage (miscegenation) • Still on the books in some southern states until the Supreme Court overturned them in 1967 • Sociologists expect that inter-racial marriage will become more common
Summary • Cohabitation seems to be another family form – but it has not replaced marriage • According to Cherlin – marriage today is a paradox, that as people enter marriage, they are more likely to judge it by a single standard – personal fulfillment - which is difficult when you are an individual in a couple. • People are more likely to marry those who are similar to them in religion, race, class, educational attainment, and attractiveness