Youth Ideas - The Mask I Wear

1. www.CreativeYouthIdeas.com Youth Ideas - The Mask I Wear This Halloween mask related study encourages youth to take a look at the masks we wear everyday, not just on Halloween and to expose what is underneath to God so that he can transform us so that we reveal his glory! www.CreativeHolidayIdeas.com

2. www.CreativeYouthIdeas.com Read the Poem “The mask I wear” Author unknown Don’t be fooled by me.Don’t be fooled by the face I wearfor I wear a mask. I wear a thousand masksmasks that I’m afraid to take offand none of them are me.Pretending is an art that’s second nature with meBut don’t be fooled, don’t be fooled.I give you the impression that I’m secure www.CreativeHolidayIdeas.com

3. www.CreativeYouthIdeas.com That all is sunny and unruffled with mewithin as well as without,that confidence is my nameand coolness my game,that the water’s calmand I’m in command,and that I need no one.But don’t believe me. Please! My surface may be smooth but my surface is my mask,My ever-varying and ever-concealing mask.Beneath lies no smugness, no complacence. www.CreativeHolidayIdeas.com

4. www.CreativeYouthIdeas.com Beneath dwells the real me in confusion, in fear, in aloneness.But I hide this. I don’t want anybody to know it.I panic at the thought of my weaknessesand fear exposing them.That’s why I frantically create my masks to hide behind.They’re nonchalant, sophisticated facades to help me pretend,To shield me from the glance that knows.But such a glance is precisely my salvation,my only salvation,and I know it. www.CreativeHolidayIdeas.com

5. www.CreativeYouthIdeas.com That is, if it’s followed by acceptance,and if it’s followed by love.It’s the only thing that can liberate me from myselffrom my own self-built prison walls. I dislike hiding, honestlyI dislike the superficial game I’m playing,the superficial phony game.I’d really like to be genuine and me.But I need your help, your hand to hold www.CreativeHolidayIdeas.com

6. www.CreativeYouthIdeas.com Even though my masks would tell you otherwiseThat glance from you is the only thing that assures meof what I can’t assure myself,that I’m really worth something.But I don’t tell you this.I don’t dare.I’m afraid to.I’m afraid you’ll think less of me, that you’ll laughand your laugh would kill me.I’m afraid that deep-down I’m nothing, that I’m just no goodand you will see this and reject me. www.CreativeHolidayIdeas.com

7. www.CreativeYouthIdeas.com So I play my game, my desperate, pretending gameWith a facade of assurance withoutAnd a trembling child within.So begins the parade of masks,The glittering but empty parade of masks,and my life becomes a front.I idly chatter to you in suave tones of surface talk.I tell you everything that’s nothingand nothing of what’s everything,of what’s crying within me.So when I’m going through my routinedo not be fooled by what I’m sayingPlease listen carefully and try to hearwhat I’m not sayingHear what I’d like to saybut what I cannot say. www.CreativeHolidayIdeas.com

8. www.CreativeYouthIdeas.com It will not be easy for you,long felt inadequacies make my defenses strong.The nearer you approach methe blinder I may strike back.Despite what books say of men, I am irrational;I fight against the very thing that I cry out for.you wonder who I amyou shouldn’tfor I am everymanand everywomanwho wears a mask.Don’t be fooled by me.At least not by the face I wear. www.CreativeHolidayIdeas.com

9. www.CreativeYouthIdeas.com • Take it to the Next Level • At Halloween, children often wear obvious masks. But the truth is people of all ages are wearing masks every day, not just on Halloween. What are some of the masks that adults often wear? What are some of the masks that youth wear? • Have you ever pretended to hide your true feelings? Why did you hide your real feelings? How is hiding your feelings like wearing a mask? www.CreativeHolidayIdeas.com

10. www.CreativeYouthIdeas.com • Have you ever pretended to be something that you weren’t? To go along with the crowd? To gain acceptance from other youth? Because you were afraid someone might not like the true you? Because you feared rejection if they saw the real you? What are some other reasons youth might wear masks? www.CreativeHolidayIdeas.com

11. www.CreativeYouthIdeas.com Taking off the Masks Wearing a mask brings certain comforts, but it also may hinder our personal growth. As long as we wear the mask we don’t have to deal with the underlying problem. But when we are truly able to confront the truth about ourselves we will find true freedom. We can find healing. We can find an answer to the weaknesses that plague us. www.CreativeHolidayIdeas.com

12. www.CreativeYouthIdeas.com • Scripture2 Corinthians 3:18 “And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his likeness with ever increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.” • Some key truths from this verse and the Life of Paul: • Paul did not need to hear kind words from his friends. His life and ministry was already reflecting God’s glory. www.CreativeHolidayIdeas.com

13. www.CreativeYouthIdeas.com • Paul revealed his weaknesses. And in doing so, he also revealed the reality and the power of Jesus. Paul was weak, but the Spirit of God was constantly at work in him. Jesus is not revealed in a person by their human perfection but rather by God transforming us into His image. • Paul’s life was not one of “see how good I am.” On the contrary, his life was “see what God is doing in a sinner (Paul referred to himself as the chief of sinners).” We are all sinners with all the ugliness of sin, bent and twisted out of shape, far from being the persons we want to be, or that God intends us to be (Romans 3:23). www.CreativeHolidayIdeas.com

14. www.CreativeYouthIdeas.com • Our transformation comes from the Holy Spirit. God is in the process of working His transformation in us. “We are being transformed into His likeness with ever-increasing glory” (2 Corinthians 3:18). www.CreativeHolidayIdeas.com

15. www.CreativeYouthIdeas.com The truth is, when we take of the masks and are honest with ourselves and God he takes our fears, our weaknesses, our sinful ugliness and transforms us to look like Him. When we fail to do so we put on a mask and we no longer reflect the love, grace and joy of Christ. One of the names that Jesus called the pharisees was that of a hypocrite, or a whitewashed tombstone. The word comes from the Greek word “hypokrites” and was a technical term for a stage actor who usually wore a mask and acted a part. www.CreativeHolidayIdeas.com

16. www.CreativeYouthIdeas.com Matthew 23:27 “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you are like whitewashed tombs which on the outside appear beautiful, but inside they are full of dead men’s bones and all uncleanness.” www.CreativeHolidayIdeas.com

17. www.CreativeYouthIdeas.com Making It PersonalWhat are some of the masks you wear? Why? How would things change if you were to take off this mask and let God deal with the true fears and issues that lie underneath? What is a real way that you can take off this mask? Is there someone you can talk in honesty that can help keep you accountable? Say a prayer to God to help you to deal with the underlying issue so that you can more fully reveal his likeness and glory in your life! www.CreativeHolidayIdeas.com

18. www.CreativeYouthIdeas.com VariationProvide Halloween masks or carnival masks for the entire group of youth. If possible, you can give youth some heavy paper (paper plates work well) and rubber bands and ask them to create a mask before the lesson. Later at the “Making it personal” stage of the lesson, have youth add a symbol or some words to indicate the mask that they want to remove so that God can work on that area of their life. www.CreativeHolidayIdeas.com

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