My Challenge - Day 19 How To Overcome Negativity In The Netw

1. My Challenge - Day 19 How To Overcome Negativity In The Network Marketing Industry

2. We`re getting close to the last day. I`m excited to share today’s topic. It really just started to hit me. You know how we always have these ideas and thoughts that come into our minds, especially when we’re driving? That’s kind of where I have my magical moments; those deep and reflective thoughts. I’m constantly feeding my brain new ideas as I drive by listening to audios, never just music. I look at my car as my universe on wheels. I look at all of the things I’m grateful for.

3. Today I thought about how to do with negativity in your life. Let’s be honest; it’s not always going to be puppies and daisies every day, especially if you’re building this type of business. Maybe you have a negative spouse or family member that doesn’t quite believe in what you’re doing. That happens a lot. I’ve personally gone through it myself. I’ve had family members that have gone through it and even business partners.

4. Perhaps they’re just doing it because they want to protect you. Or there might be some jealousy involved, hidden motives or some underlying issue that they have gone through. It’s hard for them to trust business. I can say the best way to really deal with that is be as authentic and real as possible. These are the people that are supporting you, but they are also the people that have seen you in your best, worst, and everywhere in between.

5. So when you’re dealing with these situations, it’s important to look at how you can really convey your side of it. Be as transparent as possible and let them know that this is something you’re doing because you want to pay off your mortgage, put your kids through school or have a profound impact on everyone’s life.

6. Emphasize that you’re doing it as a collective unity. It isn’t something you will back down from. Even if you’ve been in multiple businesses and they just don’t believe that you can continue to do it, tell them that this is something that you’re going to be committed to. It will also require that you take ownership of your own business.

7. It means that if there are 8 core commitments that you have to do, you have to follow through it. It’s important that you follow through and do exactly what is expected of you. I was kind of going through the motions and telling people, but they could feel in my voice and personality that I really wasn’t being sincere. I told people that I was making all of this money, but I really wasn’t. Or I’m doing extremely well when I felt like I wasn’t getting the results that I wanted. I had to take personal responsibility and stop blaming other people for my circumstances.

8. When you can do that, it’s so much more powerful because you’re able to deal with it. You’re able to forgive people. Basically, you can surrender to all of the obstacles that are going to happen and continue to happen in your life. Just keep moving in the direction you want. By doing so, you’re going to notice that life just becomes so much simpler. Things are more enjoyable, the relationships you have are more fulfilling. If you can overcome it, then things will change drastically for you.

9. The number one thing is be as transparent with your friends and family and let them know that you’re taking responsibility for your own life. On a daily basis I would blame my job, my boss or sometimes my family or friends. It just made me feel so defeated day after day. I wasn’t able to attract the right people because I was full of negative energy and repelling what I really wanted.

10. When I became true to myself and took ownership, things changed for me. So if you’re going through those same circumstances, realise that you always have a choice to change it. Maybe you have been in this situation for a long time, but do what you need to do. Make a positive difference in your life.