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How to Negotiate Effectively. Camp Start with No Negotiation System. Original Objective. How to overcome obstacles at the bargaining table and build stronger agreements without haggling, bargaining, or compromising
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How to Negotiate Effectively Camp Start with No Negotiation System
Original Objective • How to overcome obstacles at the bargaining table and build stronger agreements without haggling, bargaining, or compromising • Which mindset and behaviors are dangerous and inadvertently undermining your success • How to control your emotions and negotiate effectively in a difficult situation • How to have real and meaningful collaboration with your vendors, customers and partners • How to ask the right question to move a complex negotiation forward to a conclusion
M&P for Lessons in Leadership Present attendees with practical informationthat will help them in their business and personal lives.
What you’re going to learn • What is an effective decision? • How to make it? • What can hinder it? • What activities are decision intensive
What is a Decision? • A conclusion or resolution reached after consideration • The action or process of deciding something or of resolving a question • Commitment to a choice - Allan
Why Decision Making? Central to everything we do
What Guides a Decision? • Self-Actualization (morality, creativity, problem solving) • Esteem(Confidence, achievement, respect) • Love/Belonging (Friendship, family, sexual intimacy) • Safety (Security of body, employment, resources, health, property) • Physiological (Breathing, food, water, sex, sleep, homeostasis, excretion
What drives what? • Self-Actualization (morality, creativity, problem solving) • Esteem(Confidence, achievement, respect) VALID MVP • Love/Belonging (Friendship, family, sexual intimacy) • Safety (Security of body, employment, resources, health, property) { • Physiological (Breathing, food, water, sex, sleep, homeostasis, excretion WANT { NEED
Negative Influences • Emotions – jealousy, anger, betrayal • F.L.U.R. (Failure, Loss, Unknown, Rejection) • Distilled into: Pain, Unknown • Hijacking of the amygdala • Freedom to make decisions $
How to Make Effective Decisions • Mastery • Developing a Strategic Mindset (if we have time)
Application at work Two Decision Intensive Activities • Negotiations • Strategy
Negotiation "The effort to bring about agreement between two or more parties with all parties having the right to veto.“
Summary How to Make Effective Decisions • Have a Valid M&P • Truly understand wants/needs (emotions) • Understand fears/problems/baggage • Understand what skillset you need to master • Develop a strategic mindset • What problems comes between you and what you want • Do NOT live in the land of “maybes” • Trained - not intuitive – can happen in milliseconds
Allan Tsang Business / executive coach Email: allan@88owls.com