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The Power of Nice. Presented by Cristi Millard RMASFAA 2011 Missoula, montana. What is the power of nice?. Nice. Is not naïve Is luckier in love Makes more money Is healthier Spends less time in court!
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The Power of Nice Presented by Cristi Millard RMASFAA 2011 Missoula, montana
Nice . . . • Is not naïve • Is luckier in love • Makes more money • Is healthier • Spends less time in court! • Doesn’t mean sacrificing what you want for someone else. There’s always a 2nd, 3rd, or even 4th solution when you apply the principles of nice.
The Six Power of Nice Principles • Positive impressions are like seeds. • You never know. • People change. • Nice must be automatic. • Negative impressions are like germs. • You will know!
Share the Credit! “It is amazing what you can accomplish if you do not care who gets the credit!”
Tickle their funny bone: Research shows that leaders who are considered outstanding tended to make 3 times more witty remarks than executives with average ratings.
Spread the Sugar! We can’t get more if we don’t give out what we have!
Flash a Smile! Positive emotions are more contagious than negative ones.
Offer gifts or compliments • I couldn’t work with a better group of people. • Thanks for helping out today – I can always count on you. • I am so impressed! You worked with that angry student without letting him get to you. • Well done! • What a great attitude!
Make friends – Before they can become enemies!
Hear No Evil See No Evil Speak No Evil
Four Ways to Say “Yes” Instead of “No” • Yes, I want to help. • Yes, you can do better. • Yes, I see you. • Yes, your talents lie elsewhere.
Let the other guy (or girl) be smarter.
Ask. Don’t tell!