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The Drama Triangle

The Drama Triangle. By team “Conflicted”. “…The Play’s the Thing…”. Stephen Karpman. Review. The Play has three Roles: Persecutor, Victim, Rescuer These Roles are Positions Ground Rule: Focus on Interests NOT Positions. Step Out. Winner’s triangle. PERSECUTOR:.

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The Drama Triangle

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  1. The Drama Triangle By team “Conflicted” “…The Play’s the Thing…”

  2. Stephen Karpman

  3. Review • The Play has three Roles: Persecutor, Victim, Rescuer • These Roles are Positions • Ground Rule: Focus on Interests NOT Positions

  4. Step Out

  5. Winner’s triangle

  6. PERSECUTOR: • ROLE: Powerful & Rightous • INTEREST: improve a situation, solve a problem • TOOLS: Assertiveness/ Curiosity/ Conflict

  7. RESCUER: • ROLE: Powerful & Heroic • INTERESTS: Be caring, empower the victim to explore and embrace new options • TOOLS: Coaching/ Conflict

  8. VICTIM: • ROLE: Powerless & Victimized/ Wronged • INTERESTS: Acknowledge vulnerability, become accessible to new options • TOOLS: Openness/ Accessibility/ Conflict

  9. Avoiding Drama triangle roles

  10. Be confident in your abilities and motivated to foster confidence in others

  11. Approach others with positive expectations

  12. Be congruent with what you say and do

  13. Support efforts to be more responsible and effective

  14. Clarify consequences, impose them when behavior warrants

  15. Do not do things you feel pressured to do for employees or coworkers

  16. When someone fails to carry out responsibilities, confront the failure without conveying the feeling they have let you down

  17. Photo credits (copied from google image 11/21-12/1/13) • Slide 1: http://www.westbengaltourism.gov.in/web/guest/kolkata-drama • Slide 2: http://taclasik.nethouse.ru/page/87852 • Slide 3: http://www.co2partners.com/blog/2013/04/karpmans-drama-triangle/ • Slide 4: http://puppydogweb.com/gallery/saintbernards/saintbernard_rahm.jpg • Slide 4: http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2010/07/100701-science-animals-mating-mice-mouse-aphrodisiac-tears/, photo by Joel Sartore • Slide 4: http://adamthinks.com/2009/03/15/wild-animals/ • Slide 4: www.friendshipsaverprogram.com/ • Slide x: http://www.tamatters.co.za/ta.html • Slide 13: http://www.ripleys.com/weird/daily-dose-of-weird-wtf-blog/unbelievable-but-true/man-suffers-heart-attack-while-eating-triple-bypass-burger • Slide 15: http://www.designfetish.org/2012/01/time-out-timer-stool.html • Slide 18: www.Telegraph.co.uk

  18. Bravo!

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