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Communication Style. Some communication differences between men and women:. Women are more likely to respond to someone’s negative feelings with understanding while men tend to offer advice on solving it.
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Some communication differences between men and women: • Women are more likely to respond to someone’s negative feelings with understanding while men tend to offer advice on solving it. • Women may feel that a problem-solving response belittles her feelings. “I feel fat.” “Why don’t you join the gym?” • Men may feel that women deny the uniqueness of his feelings. “My boss doesn’t appreciate me.” “I know, sometimes I feel the same way.”
Continued • Women tend to engage in more overlapping speech (e.g yup, uh-huh, right, no kidding). • Men tend to interrupt and change the topic more frequently while women tend to be more inclusive, asking for the other person’s opinion.
What is the solution? • Just being aware of gender differences can improve communication. • Attribution styles also matter (remember FAE & SSB?). • Fundamental Attribution Error: when you someone’s behaviour is to his/her disposition rather than the situation. • Self-Serving Bias: when you attribute your successes to your disposition but failures to the situation. • What type of attribution style would be the healthiest for a relationship? -Attributing positive behaviour to disposition and negative behaviour to the situation.