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Learned Optimism. A Study by Dr . Marvin Seligman. Two ways of life. Optimism. Pessimism. The Optimism Test. http://www.stanford.edu/class/msande271/onlinetools/LearnedOpt.html. How do you react to bad events?. Permanence (bad events). Pessimist. Optimist. Persist forever. Temporary.
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Learned Optimism A Study by Dr. Marvin Seligman
Two ways of life Optimism Pessimism
The Optimism Test http://www.stanford.edu/class/msande271/onlinetools/LearnedOpt.html
Permanence (bad events) • Pessimist • Optimist • Persist forever • Temporary • My boss is in a bad mood today • My boss is a bastard
Permanence Score • PmB: Permanence Bad (7) • 0-1 very optimistic • 4 average • 7-8 very pessimistic • PmG: Permanence Good (4) • 7-8 very optimistic • 4-5 average • 0-1 very pessimistic
Pervasiveness • Pessimist Optimist • Universal • Specific • Good event • All teachers are unfair. • Bad event • Teacher x is unfair.
Pervasiveness • PvB: Pervasiveness Bad (4) • 0-1 very optimistic • 4 average • 7-8 very pessimistic • PvG: Pervasiveness Good (3) • 7-8 very optimistic • 4-5 average • 0-1 very pessimistic
Hope • PvB + PmB • 0-2 very hopeful • 12-16 severely hopeless (11)
The Hopeless • People who make permanent and universal explanations for their troubles • tend to collapse under pressure
Personalization • When bad things happen, do we blame ourselves? • If so, do we lose self-esteem when bad events strike?
Responsibility for our actions • “I’m stupid” vs • “You’re stupid”
Responsibility for our actions • Depressives tend to take way more responsibility for bad events than is realistic Depressives Realistic High Low
PsB = Personalization Bad • 0-1 very high self esteem • 4 average (4) • 7-8 very low self esteem
PsG = Personalization Good • 7-8 very high self esteem • 4-5 average • 0-1 very low self esteem (2)
Total Score • Good-Bad • Above 8 very optimistic. • 6 – 7 optimistic • 3-5 average • 0 or below very pessimistic (-6) prone to depression
Benefits of Pessimism • Pessimists see reality !
Reality • Non-depressed people • Believe they have more control than they do • Overestimated their performance
Pessimism works • Companies need pessimists to survive • Finance • Compliance • Pessimism keeps you alive • airlines
if you are pessimistic…. But...
May be achieving less Your talent Effort Achievement
Your health • May have weakened physical health • and it gets worse with age.
Bad life events • Children may suffering bad life events (divorce, family deaths, etc) • will do worst
Pessimism in children’s life • But also children who see bad events as permanent, pervasive and personal • Will over time get depressed and do badly
At School • Explanatory style is • as much of a predictor of success • as SAT’s or IQ tests
At Work: Met Life study • Group A: Regular force • Pass Career Profile, insurance industry test • Group B: Special Force • Failed Career Profile • Would not usually be hired anywhere else • But scored top half of the optimism test.
Special force At Work • 1st year • Outsold the pessimists in the regular force by 21% • 2nd year • Outsold the pessimists by 57%
Health: Nursing home study • The First Floor • Extra control and choice in their lives • Have to choose omeletes or scrambled eggs for breakfast the night before • Have to choose the film to watch before • Pick plants if you want and you have to water it.
Health: Nursing home study • The Second Floor • The same added extra good things but… • Omelettes on Mon, Wed, and Fri. • Scrambled eggs on the other days • Residents from left corridor go Wednesday for the film. • Those from right corridor Thursday. • Nurse waters plants in the room
Eighteen months later… • The First Floor • With choice and control • More active and happier • Lived longer
I am pessimistic. • And I think I’m born with it. • Really?
Children are … • From 9 to 12 years old boys and girls • Total average is 13.5
But they are open to • Adults’ criticism • Teacher and parents • Life crises
And mother’s explanatory style • Mummy, there’s a dent on my side of the car. • Damn, Bob will kill me. • Daddy told you to always park his new car far away from the other cars • Damn, things like this always happen to me. I’m so lazy, I just want to carry groceries a few feet, not a hundred yards. I’m so stupid.
ABC • Adversity • Beliefs • Consequences
Identify ABC • A: Someone cuts you off while you are driving • B: You think “______________” • C: You get pissed off and honk your horn
Record your ABC • A: I broke the build. Int. server is not working this morning. • B: Why didn’t I notice it yesterday. I am careless and stupid. I have fix it now, and We lost half-day. • C: I feel stupid and unprofessional. I’m depressed
Dispute your beliefs • Argue with yourself • Look for alternative explanations,de-catastrophize
Change your Belifes • A: I broke the build. Int. server is not working this morning. • B: I was working very hard and got exhausted in the afternoon. I learned that maintanable pace is important. I know what’s broken, so I can fix it very quickly. • C: I feel relieved. I learn a lesson and am a better developer now.
Homework • Record your ABC • Evaluate your ABC and dispute it