Problem definition and interventions for cure

1. Problem definition and interventions for cure

2. The past in the present Structural pathology

3. Contamination P P P A A Parent prejudices and slogans mistaken for facts A C C Child delusions, phobias or superstitions mistaken for facts. C A. Parent contamination B. Child contamination C. Double contamination

4. Diagnosis contamination • Parent Contamination: Prejudices or learned beliefs that are taken as facts such as cataloging or discriminating a group of people by their race, sex, color, economic condition, occupation, • To talk about oneself saying “you” instead of “I” • Lack of thinking for oneself, the person’s ideology comes from family, religious or culturally learned concepts. • Copies other people’s behaviors, without being aware of this. • Categorical opinions. • Frequent use of words such as “always”, “never”, “you should”, “you have to”. • Child Contamination: Attitudes of overadaptation such as: a submissive self-devaluation or over-rebelliousness to any authority. • Discrepancies between reality and fantasy or delusions. • Irrational thinking and behaviors based on childhood beliefs determining the self-concept of the person, such as: I am ugly, stupid, disagreeable, clumsy, a bad person, etc. • Not listening to people. • Catastrophic expectancies. • Discussions defending or justifying irrational positions.

5. Exclusionwithdrawal of free and unbound energy P P P A A A C C C A. Excluded Parent B. Excluded Adult C. Excluded child

6. Diagnosis exclusion • Excluded Parent • Inflexibility. • Controlling attitudes. • Rules and limits are not respected, the person imposes its own rules. • Tempting and manipulative attitudes to achive what is wanted at any price • Intelligent, intuitive people with psychopathic traces • Excluded Adult • Reality is denied. • In constant conflict. • Very resistant defenses. • Bizarre and strange attitudes with psychotic traces. • Excluded Child • Childhood is not remembered. • Emotions are suppressed. • Fear that something terrible happens if one´s feelings are expressed. • Psychosomatic disorders.

7. P P P A A A C C C A. Constant (excluding) Parent B. Constant (excluding) Adult C. Constant (excluding) child Constant ego-states

8. Diagnosis constancy • Constant or Excluding Parent • Overcritical attitudes. • Overnurturing attitudes. • The person always believes he or she is right, trying to impose their thoughts on others, forcing them to accept their opinions. • Resistance to change. • Likes to indoctrinate or pontificate others. • Authoritarian attitudes. • Constant or Excluding Adult • Constantly involved in work or in trying to get others to work. • Attitudes of coldness and indifference. • Seldomly interested in playing and having fun. • Frequently intellectualizes • Functions by planning first, collecting information and processing data. • Constant or Excluding Child • Narcissistic features. • Impulsive personality, very much in touch with their feelings. • Place more importance on their feelings than thinking clearly and having an objective evaluation. • The person always wants to be the center of attention, in every way. • Self-centered, selfish and vain person.

9. Functional pathology

10. Ego state boundaries • Definition: semi permeable membrane through which psychic energy necessary for effective functioning can flow from one ego state to another. Effective healthy flow can be a spontaneous response to a stimuli or can be deliberately shifted through an act of will (Berne, 1964) • Shifts in ego states depend on the forces acting on ego state, the permeability of the boundaries and the cathectic capacity of each ego state (Berne, 1961)Spontaneity means the option, the freedom to choose and express one’s feelings from any ego state (Berne, 1964)

11. Psychic energy • Only one ego state will have executive power over behaviour at any one given time. • Everyone has a supply of cathexis or psychic energy which is high when a person’s need for stimulus, strokes and structure are being met. • This psychic energy exists in three forms: less transferable bound (monkey sits) or unbound (monkey falls) energy and transferable free (monkey jumps). • An ego state will take over executive power when unbound + free = active energy > than in the other ego states. • Ego boundaries are conceived as semipermeable under most conditions. They are relatively impermeable to bund and unbound cathexis, while free cathexis can pass with relative ease from one ego state to another (Berne, 1961). • An ego state will be experienced as real self when free energy > than in other ego states. • True autonomy is the ability of cathecting ego states at will.

12. Functional pathology • Permeability of ego state boundaries: too rigid (exclusion) or too lax (loss of identity, disoganized, confusion, separaton anxiety, symbiotic, normal state at birth) or lesions (external sore spots that lead to eruption of feelings) • Lability of cathexis: too sluggish or too quick • There are no weak ego states only weakly cathected ego states.

13. CRITERIA FOR THE DIAGNOSIS OF LAXITY When a problem is severe the person becomes dysfunctional and disorganized, instead of solving it. • Regressive and symbiotic attitudes. • Dependent and childlike personality. • To feel, speak and act in a confused way. • Easily influenced. • Difficulties separating thoughts from feelings. • Separation anxiety. • Fear of being alone. • Difficulties to think clearly. • Emotional instability. • Ambivalence.

14. CRITERIA FOR THE DIAGNOSIS OF LESION • Ego control collapses with exaggerated and unexpected emotional explosions which may seem irrational to others. • Feelings of depersonalization, unreality and déjà vu. • Acting out behaviors, that might be destructive. • Some stimulus are experienced as intolerable. • Feelings of being hurt without justification. • Sudden unexpected outbursts when they feel that their Parental values are threatened

15. Interventions for cure

16. Ideas about cure • The therapist does not cure anyone, he only treats them to the best of his ability, being careful not to injure and waiting for nature to take its healing course. His metaphors for therapy included: you find a splinter and take it out. You accomplish the therapeutic aims in the treatment contract. Frog to prince transformation (Berne (1966) . • Cure often results from the clients understanding of her current life event in the context of a life long pattern together with sufficient rage to initiate action. Berne (1972) • Goals for TA treatment are (Berne (1978) : • 1. elimination of symptoms, • 2. support of the individuals health resources, • 3. decrease in those tendencies in a person’s psychic economy which are self defeating and foster isolation from others

17. Types of cure (Clarkson, 1988) • OK change cure: break out of script entirely stable over time and under pressure “such a script cure which changes character and destiny, is also a clinical cure since most of his symptoms will be relieved by his redecision (Berne, 1972). This type of script cure also causes discomfort: a. nostalgia for the person you sued to be, b. faced with existential problems of necessity, freedom of choice and absurdity all of which were previously evaded by illusions of script Berne, 1966). Archetype: Odysseus • Making progress (non change): The patient fights being a winner because he is not in treatment for that purpose but only to be made a braver loser (Berne, 1972) or what Steiner calls banal script. In response to change banal script is in constant state of stress, holding bund and unbound energy, avoiding true contact. Making progress should be encouraged where alternative is third degree pay-off. Archetype: Echo. • Disillusionment (impossible change) : The most painful task a therapist has to perform is to tell his patients finally that there is no Santa Claus (Berne, 1972). Much heartbreak can be avoided by confronting realism and achievability of contracts. No amount of redeciding can change the past or guarantee that other people will behave honorably. Archetype: Icarus. • Disintegration or casualty (Not OK change): a casualty is patient who as direct result of experience in therapy becomes more distressed or employs maladaptive mechanisms of defense more. Usually due to mistimed interventions, inadequate protection or chaotic treatment planning. Archetype: Medea. • Counter-script cure (illusion of autonomy): Jeder caries out his script even after parents have gone. It acts like a player piano roll..Jeder sits meanwhile before the piano moving fingers under the illusion that it is he bringing concerto to foregone conclusion (Berne 1972). Belief that one has changed fundamentally when the change is actually cosmetic and patient is still adapted or driven. Over-adaptation can sometimes be better than incapacitation or violence. Problem is not that it happens but that therapist and client may mistake it for the therapeutic goal. Archetype: Oedipus.

18. Change pentagon (Clarkson, 1988)

19. A: Berne’s eight operations decontaminate, deconfuse C, and decommission P

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