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WHAT’S IMPORTANT TO YOU?. Family, Farming and Communication. VALUES ARE . Things you believe are good, desirable and most important. Your personal belief of what is worthwhile in life. IDENTIFYING AND PRIORITIZING VALUES. All values are important
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WHAT’S IMPORTANT TO YOU? Family, Farming and Communication
VALUES ARE ... • Things you believe are good, desirable and most important. • Your personal belief of what is worthwhile in life.
IDENTIFYING AND PRIORITIZING VALUES • All values are important • Many factors influence and change our values • Values vary among individuals • There are no right or wrong answers
“Dedicate yourself” “Be independent” “Behave like a businessMAN” “Care for your family” “Be a mother” Loyalty to the family business is fused with loyalty to the family of origin Loyalty competes with family demands Loyalty to “self” Women Running the Farm - Generational Differences -
Initiating Discussion Why is it so difficult? • Unpleasant overtones connected to growing old and dying • Children don’t want to appear greedy or as trying to take over
Someone needs to start the dialog … who will it be? • Don’t be put off by family members who are not ready to talk … • They may never be ready and later may be too late!
Continuation of the Family Farm How important is it to you … • That the farm remain in your family’s possession? Ponder: Children want to do something different than farm – how do you feel about that?
Expectations Related to Transfer Process How important is it to you … • That a division of farm property among all children is equal in dollar value? • That your children play a part in the decision making for the farm’s future? Ponder: Not everyone in the family is satisfied with the way the transfer occurs? How does this make you feel?
Maintaining Control of Farm Decisions How important is it to you … • To maintain some financial control throughout your life? Ponder: Younger generation wants major decision authority
Security for Both Generations How important is it to you … • That your retirement wants are protected regardless of the effect on the long term viability of the farm? Ponder:Your children expect your financial help to get established in farming?
Concerns About Children How important is it to you … • To give financial assistance to children who choose farming as a career? • To provide financial assistance to help non-farming children become established off the farm? Ponder: Is it necessary to give each child the same $ value of assistance?
Where does the time go? • It’s time to talk • It’s time to identify what’s important • It’s time to make a plan • It’s time to make decisions • It’s the right time!