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Many men are concerned with lasting longer. This can lead them to underestimate the possible benefits of the quickie for their relationships and senual health.
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Sensual Health: Keep Things Exciting with an Occasional Quickie By John Dugan
Many men feel pressure to last a long time in bed. While partners may occasionally enjoy lengthy sensual sessions, sometimes men have unrealistic expectations of themselves. For one, the average man finishes within 3 to 7 minutes of continual thrusting. There are ways to lengthen lasting time, and these techniques are worth learning for better sensual health and enjoyment. • Sometimes, though, an emphasis on lasting time can obscure the fact that the occasional quickie can be highly enjoyable for both partners. A man may be missing opportunities for hot, speedy romps if he stakes his manliness or sensual prowess on duration. A feverishly fast escapade here and there can add excitement to a couple’s lovemaking life, so quickies should not be ruled out. The following tips will help a couple incorporate brief and steamy bouts of lovemaking into the repertoire. www.man1health.com
Get on the same page. • When it comes to anything lovemaking-related, it’s important that both partners are on board. Therefore, when one partner has limited time, the other should be apprised of this and determine whether he or she is up for a quickie. • This can be approached in a matter-of-fact way, but a partner can heighten the sensuality of the moment by expressing the urgency of his or her desire. “I only have a few minutes, but I want you so badly”; “I really don’t want to walk out the door without going to town on you at least for a couple minutes.” Expressions in this vein are more likely to rev up a partner than something like, “I’ve got five minutes. You wanna do it?” www.man1health.com
Be prepared. • Less time for lovemaking means less time for pre-play. That means a couple may need to implement lube. Some women might not like the idea of very little pre-play before lovemaking, in which case more time will be required to pull off a quickie; keep this in mind. If she’s down for some product-assisted play, however, a man should make sure to have it on hand. www.man1health.com
If she takes longer… • Most different-gendered couples will notice that women generally take longer to finish than men. This could mean that a quickie does not result in a release for her. Some women are fine with that, whereas others want to finish every time. Both are perfectly legitimate positions. • If a woman doesn’t mind, then fine. If she does, then partners may be best off discussing quickies outside the moment. A woman may be content to finish on her own after a man leaves – maybe more so if she sends him a steamy email or text when she’s done describing her release. (Note: Men, don’t read such correspondences while driving! Safety first.) www.man1health.com
Another option a couple can try is incorporating a vibrator into the mix. Placing a vibrator against her external hot spot can greatly shorten the time she takes to finish. However, it’s never a sure thing; partners should keep that in mind. • Try new places. • A quickie might be more enjoyable in a new location. Instead of in bed, for example, a man might bend his partner over the kitchen table or have the partner kneel on a couch or chair. This can add extra excitement. www.man1health.com
When a man engages in a quickie, he’s likely to go a little harder and faster than usual (if his partner is into that). He may need to follow up such sessions with a little extra manhood care. Using a male organ health crème(health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) is a great way to maintain optimal skin condition, and not only after a quickie, but on a daily basis. Moisturizing the male organ helps prevent soreness and chafing from friction, and can even preserve member sensitivity in the long run. Both are imperative to a healthy lovemaking life.