Sensual Tips: Rules for Discussing Role Playing

1. Sensual Tips: Rules for Discussing Role Playing By John Dugan

2. Even couples with a healthy sensual life filled with abundant activity find that they can occasionally benefit from sensual tips. This is especially true for couples who have been together for an extended period of time and so may need to explore avenues for “livening things up a bit”- which is where role playing can come in handy. Many sensual tips revolve around things like male organ health or getting plenty of exercise, which are important, but these tips will focus on rules that couples need to take into consideration as they begin exploring the wonderful world of sensual role playing. www.man1health.com

3. Communication is the key • The first rule for role playing is: communicate. (Really, this should be the first rule for all matters in a couple’s life.) On the most basic level, a couple needs to decide together if role playing is something that each partner feels comfortable with doing. • The hurdle is usually taking that first step and broaching the subject. A man may feel awkward admitting that he has a desire to pretend he is a patient who gets turned on when his nurse gives him a sponge bath, for example. But once the idea of engaging in role playing is introduced, many people are surprised to find that their partner has some scenarios of their own that they want to explore. www.man1health.com

4. Be non-judgmental • Equally important is for each partner to hear their mate’s role playing ideas without passing negative judgment on them. That doesn’t mean that a person has to acquiesce to every idea their partner has; rather, they need to be respectful of the fact that their partner is sharing this part of themselves. If a partner’s fantasy is distasteful to their mate, the mate should not respond with “No way, that’s totally disgusting!” Instead, something along the lines of “I’m glad you told me about that, but I don’t think I’d be comfortable in that role” is more appropriate. www.man1health.com

5. Don’t push • By the same token, if a woman has already made it clear that she is not into a particular fantasy, the man should not continue pushing it or raising it again and again. Let it go and move on to the next. • However, a person may want to discover why their partner is not interested in a particular scenario – especially if the partner says no to two or three of them. It may be that there is a recurring theme in the scenarios that is the problem. In such cases, asking “Can you tell me what it is about the role playing idea that makes you uncomfortable?” can be a good idea. www.man1health.com

6. Talk about boundaries • Although this is just a preliminary discussion, it may be a good idea to talk about boundaries at this early stage – even before a later conversation about setting specific rules. Some people will have firm ideas about things that are deal breakers for them. Deal breakers can cover a wide range, from not putting on costumes to location to whether pictures can be taken to the “roughness” that might be involved in some scenarios. Getting these out in the open early on can make it easier for some people to discuss the topic and move on to the sensual fun. www.man1health.com

7. Role playing sensual tips can help lead a couple into new areas, so a man will want to be sure his manhood is in good playing shape for any new activities. That’s why daily use of a first class male organ health crème(health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) is so important. The ideal crème is going to contain both L-arginine and vitamin C. L-arginine is an amino acid involved in the process by which male organ blood vessels are kept open and receptive to increased blood flow, an area in which vitamin C also plays a role. It also helps if the selected crème contains pantothenic acid (also called vitamin B5), a nutrient that significantly aids cell metabolism and the maintenance of healthy manhood tissue.