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Externals Looks, money, clothes, etc. What others say How others treat you. Internals Inherent value as a human What you say How you treat yourself. Self-Esteem Internal Source. EXTERNAL INTERNAL . Unaware of own talents Compares self to others Competes with others
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Externals Looks, money, clothes, etc. What others say How others treat you Internals Inherent value as a human What you say How you treat yourself Self-EsteemInternal Source EXTERNALINTERNAL
Unaware of own talents Compares self to others Competes with others Goal is I win/you lose Knows own talents Does NOT compare self to others Cooperates with others Goal is I win/you win Unique Talents Package EXTERNAL INTERNAL
Focuses on negative in self Puts self down Focuses on negative in others Puts others down, is mean Focuses on positive in self Affirms self Focuses on positive in others Affirms others, is kind Positive Focus EXTERNAL INTERNAL
Says but doesn’t do Starts but doesn’t finish Doesn’t do their best Doesn’t walk their talk -dishonest Keeps their word Completes what they start Does their best-every time Walks their talk - honest Personal Integrity EXTERNAL INTERNAL
Must be perfect Blames others Holds grudges for self and others Resists change and growth It’s OK to make mistakes Admits own mistakes Forgives self and others Seeks change and growth Humanness EXTERNAL INTERNAL