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Explore the fundamental principles and responsibilities of Christian marriage, including the roles of a godly husband and wife. Discover the importance of spiritual maturity, partnership, and protection within the union. Dive into biblical teachings on marriage prerequisites and why it matters for Christian youths.
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PRECEPTS FOR CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE Youth Search The Scriptures Deeper Christian Life Ministry, Canada
What is Marriage? • What is marriage? • The legal relationship of one husband and one wife is the approved marriage before the Lord • Pre-requisites for a godly marriage • Spiritual, emotional, physical, social, psychological and financial maturity.
Memory Verse • Ephesians 5: 31 Main Text Ephesians 5: 22-33
Why talk about marriage to youths? Today’s lessons will prevent future failures and regrets
Basic Reasons for Marriage… • Partnership (Ecclesiastes 4:9- 12), • Procreation (Genesis 1:28), • Pleasure (Proverbs 5:15-20), • Purity (1 Corinthians 7:2), • Power (Deuteronomy32:30), • Protection (Proverbs 31:11,12) • Progress (Proverbs 31:13-29).
The picture of of a godly wife • Submission to her husband as to the Lord (Ephesians 5:22; Colossians 3:18) • Respects her husband as an example for the children to follow (Ephesians 5:33) • Sober, maintaining discipline among the children and ensures that they have the fear of God(Titus 2:4-5) • Love for her husband and the children (Titus 2:4) • Be an example of obedience and faith in God (1 Peter 3:1; 1Tim. 2:15; Titus 2:5) • Hard work and industry (Proverbs 31:10-31)
The picture of of a godly husband • Must love, cherish and nourish his wife as Christ loved the Church (Colossians 3:19) • Be a good administrator and example for the family (1 Tim. 3:4) • Should not provoke his children to wrath and honour his wife before others (Eph. 6:4; 1 Peter 3:7) • Hardworker, diligent and provides adequately for the family (1 Tim. 5:8) • Blameless, hospitable and possess knowledge and wisdom to take decisions aright (Tit. 1:6-8) • A good listener and communicator (Eph. 6:4)
Purpose of marriage • Partnership, procreation, pleasure, purity, power, protection and progress • Process of marriage • Family Process • Church Process • Legal Process • Pattern for marriage • One man and one woman (Malachi 2:14-16) • Separated from their parents (Genesis 2: 24) • Valid till death; no divorce (Malachi 2:14-16)
Unmarriageable categories2 Corinthians 6:14- 18 2 Corinthians 6: 14-18 Malachi 3: 15 Matthew 19: 9 Matthew 19: 12 Romans 1: 26-27
Necessary Clarifications • Cohabitation and every living together that has no legal backing is sinful (Hebrews 13: 4) • Marriage is between a man and a woman (Eph. 5: 31; Romans 1: 26-27) • Not between a boy and a girl • Not between a man and a man • Not between a man and animal • Not between a woman and a woman
“Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands” (Proverbs 14:1) • “Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised” (Proverbs 31:30) • Ecclesiastes 12: 1
Our Necessary Prayer and Song • “O give us homes built firm upon the Saviour, Where Christ is Head and Counsellor and Guide; Where ev’ry child is taught His love and favour, And gives his heart to Christ, the Crucified: • How sweet to know that tho’ his foot-steps waver, His faithful Lord is walking by his side!”
Marriage can be viewed as the relationship between Christ and her bride-THE CHURCH • Are you ready for Christ’s return? • What must every youth do to be at the Marriage supper of the Lamb? • Repent from all sins • Consecrate your life to the Lord
Why is the teaching on Christian marriage important to Christian youths? • Recall some divine portraits of a godly wife and mention some of her responsibilities in the family • Recall some divine portraits of a godly husband and mention some of his responsibilities in the family • What are the divine precepts for those waiting to marry? • State the spiritual experiences Christian youths need to posses to enjoy marriage and how one can get them