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Responsibilities of Parenting page 33. Before we get started… If a seven-year-old behaved the same way a toddler would, do you think the parents would respond in the same way as they would to the toddler?. Parenting. The process of caring for children and helping them grow and develop.
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Responsibilities of Parentingpage 33 Before we get started… If a seven-year-old behaved the same way a toddler would, do you think the parents would respond in the same way as they would to the toddler?
Parenting The process of caring for children and helping them grow and develop
Imagine having a job where you worked 24 hours a day. Even when you went on vacation or were sick you had to work. How might you feel after six weeks of this job? After a year? Mason only a few minutes old
Parenting and Families • Preparation for parenthood • Having reasonable expectations • Parenthood readiness • Emotional maturity
Parenting (NOT!!) Emotional maturity and brains…
Parenting and Families • Preparation for parenthood • Having reasonable expectations • Parenthood readiness • Emotional maturity • Health considerations • Financial concerns
Parent interview assignment Interview your mother or father or caregiver about the joys and responsibilities of parenting. As you interview them focus on the questions I’ve given you, but ask your own questions as well. Please use complete sentences and paragraphs. No one word answers. Do not give this to someone and have them fill it out. You need to have a conversation and write it down. I will give you some ideas of things to ask or talk about. It is due next class. You must turn in this paper before you can sign up to take the baby. You have one week to complete this assignment. That’s it.
Discussion topics • How does the responsibility of parenting compare with the other responsibilities in your life? • What, in general, should parents teach their children? • What have you learned from your children? • What do you enjoy most about the parent-child relationship? • What activities do you say “no” to? • What aspect of parenting do you feel the most prepared for? • What aspect of parenting do you feel the least prepared for? • What advice would you give to a couple who are considering becoming parents? • Compare how children were raise during your childhood and how they are raised today. Give specific examples. • What activities do children do today that they would never have done when you were young? • What challenges do children face today that never concerned you? • At what age did you have your first child? • Do you feel that you were too young, just right or too old to start a family? • If you had to do it over, would you have children? • If you could give just one piece of advice to your child today, what would it be?
Resource Management Skills… Set goals Identify Resources Make a plan Put the plan into action Re-evaluate from time to time Math in Action pg 36What costs are involved?
Resource ManagementPage 36 Before we start… What are resources? Using resource management skills; Set goals Identify Resources Make a plan Put the plan into action Re-evaluate from time to time Think of a goal you have, or make one up, write how you would accomplish it using the steps listed above.
Resource Management Skills… Set goals Identify Resources Make a plan Put the plan into action Re-evaluate from time to time Math in Action pg 36What costs are involved?
Creating a budget Fixed expenses rent/house payment car payment insurance Emergency money Savings Household expenses food utilities telephone Transportation/gasoline Personal spending clothing gifts pocket money recreation vacation movies eating at restaurants ect.
Stages of Parenthood Image-making Nurturing Authority Interpretive Interdependent Departure
Parenting responsibilities and rewards • New responsibilities • Lifestyle changes Imagine each morning taking a 4 month old to a child care center before going to work at 7:15 am. What might your morning schedule be like? What would your schedule be like the night before? • Emotional adjustments • Relationship changes • Employment adjustment • Legal responsibilities • Rewards of Parenthood
On your feet… • Around the room are papers titled • Lifestyle changes • Emotional adjustments • Relationship changes • Employment adjustment • Legal responsibilities • Rewards of Parenthood • As a class we will make a list for each title.
What have you learned about what skills these parents will need?
Complete After you read page 41 1-4 (#4 only the first sentence of the question) Turn it in and put your book away.