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Domestic Violence. Nicole Huff, LCSW Bay Area Academy. Agenda. Introductions & objectives History of spousal violence What does the research say? Domestic violence Domestic violence and children Domestic violence and child welfare.
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Domestic Violence Nicole Huff, LCSW Bay Area Academy Nicole Huff August 2007
Agenda • Introductions & objectives • History of spousal violence • What does the research say? • Domestic violence • Domestic violence and children • Domestic violence and child welfare Nicole Huff August 2007
History*SafeNetwork: California’s Domestic Violence Resource • 753 B.C.-The Laws of Chastisement • 1500’s-Lord Hale and the marital rape exemption • “Rule of Thumb” • 1804-Napaleonic Code • 1800’s America • 1919-19th Amendment Nicole Huff August 2007
History cont. • 1920’s-Psychoanalysis • 1960’s-Practice of non-arrest • 1970’s-Beginning of the Battered Women’s Movement • Late 1970’s-Lawsuits against law enforcement Nicole Huff August 2007
History cont. • 1984-Battered Women’s Syndrome • 1994-Violence Against Women Act • 1990’s-Status of marital rape exemption Where are we today? Nicole Huff August 2007
Prevalence*Center for Disease Control, Injury Center *A note about data collection • Nearly 5.3 million incidents against women and 3.2 million against men a year • 1.5 million women and 800,000 men raped and/or physically assaulted • 2 million injuries and 1,300 deaths • 85% of victims are women Nicole Huff August 2007
Risks • Battered women • six times greater risk for drug abuse • fifteen times greater risk for alcohol abuse. • Women who abuse drugs/alcohol are more likely to become victims of domestic violence (Miller et al., 1989) • (25%) to (50%) of men who commit violent acts of DV also have substance abuse problems Nicole Huff August 2007
Higher Risks for Women: • Partners experienced periodic unemployment • Partners did not graduate high school • Assault by a former partner than her current partner Nicole Huff August 2007
No Higher Risk Association • Race and ethnicity of men • Race, ethnicity, age, or education of women *Caveat Nicole Huff August 2007
Cycle of Violence Tension Building Honeymoon Explosive Nicole Huff August 2007
Types of Abuse • Financial • Emotional Nicole Huff August 2007
Types, cont • Sexual • Physical Nicole Huff August 2007
Traits of Batterers • Emotional dependence • Rigid gender and role expectations • Violate personal boundaries • Controlling behaviors • Jealousy • Rigid religious or cultural beliefs Nicole Huff August 2007
Batterers, cont. • Hypersensitivity • Difficulty expressing and/or identifying feelings • Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde • Externalize blame • Cruelty • History of using violence to solve problems Nicole Huff August 2007
Responses/Effects re: Victims • Stress disorders • Low self-esteem • Social isolation • Feeling hopeless and powerless • Fear/Terror • Self-blame • Anxiety Nicole Huff August 2007
Victims, cont. • Hyper-vigilance • Dissociation • Denial/Minimization • Wishful thinking • Shame • Anger • Engaging in high-risk behaviors Nicole Huff August 2007
Why does she stay? Nicole Huff August 2007
Assessing Lethality • Victim’s report • Use of and/or access to weapons • Threats of homicide and/or suicide • Substance abuse • Extreme jealousy or obsession • Abuse that involves severe violence • Recent separation/Change Nicole Huff August 2007
Cultural Considerations • Children of color are over-represented in all “systems” • Definitions may be different • Mistrust of mainstream systems • Language • Previous negative experiences with authorities Nicole Huff August 2007
What are the risks if she tells? What are the risks if she doesn’t tell? Nicole Huff August 2007
Undocumented/Recent Immigrant • Fear of deportation • Further isolation • Language • Taboos in discussing the family with strangers • Shame/dishonor *VAWA Nicole Huff August 2007
Gay, Lesbian, Transgender • Threats to “out” partners • Seen as mutual (“cat fight”) • Reluctance to bring even more negative attention to community • No legal process for separation Nicole Huff August 2007
Male victims • Contrary to societal expectations • Extreme shame • Discrimination in “systems” responses *Be aware of reactive violence and self defense Nicole Huff August 2007
Teens • Societal messages about violence • Development/Age issues • Boundaries • Pressure • Jealousy & possessiveness • Exposure to DV Nicole Huff August 2007
Elderly • Traditional responses don’t appeal or meet needs • Generation mores • “Domestic violence grown old” • New relationship • Late onset Nicole Huff August 2007
Disabled • Limitations in communications ability • Dependent on abuser • Low self esteem/view of self as “damaged” • Physically incapable • Loss of caretaker Nicole Huff August 2007
Children and the Numbers • Between 3.3 and 10 million children exposed every year • Slightly more than half of victims of intimate violence have children in the home • 79% of violent children witnessed DV Nicole Huff August 2007
DV & Children • 80% of child abuse cases are associated with the use of alcohol and other drugs • 43% of child fatalities occur in families where the mother was abused Nicole Huff August 2007
DV & Children • Daughters of batterers are 6.5 times more likely to be victims of incest • 45-70% of cases of domestic violence where there are children, the children are also abused • Child abuse by those mothers who have been beaten is at least double that of mothers whose husbands did not assault them • 50% of men who batter their partners also batter their children Nicole Huff August 2007
DV & Child Welfare • Domestic violence is a significant problem for 30%-40% of families in the Child Welfare system • Santa Clara County statistics show 40-80% of cases involved “overlap” • 40% had DV issues within the last year • 80% had DV issues from one or both parties sometime in their history Nicole Huff August 2007
Effects on children • Of Children who witness their mother being abused: • 40% suffer anxiety • 48% suffer depression • 53% act out with their parents • 60% act out with their siblings Nicole Huff August 2007
Effects, cont. • Normalize violence • Poor impulse control • Sleep disturbances • Injury • Withdrawn • Delinquent/negative behaviors • Aggression Nicole Huff August 2007
Assessment • Interview separately • Patterns in language and behavior • Always ask the questions, no matter what the initial allegation is • Behaviors not buzzwords • SAFETY Nicole Huff August 2007
Assessment cont. • Assess protective capacities • Hold each adult accountable to their own abusive behaviors • Collateral sources Nicole Huff August 2007
Presence of domestic violence alone is not child abuse Nicole Huff August 2007
Interview Questions • Interviewing the child • Interviewing the known/potential victim • Interviewing the known/potential batterer Nicole Huff August 2007
Social Worker’s Role with Children • Assess and assure their safety • Reassure them that they are not responsible for the violence • Reassure them it is okay to talk about the violence • Discuss safety with them as appropriate Nicole Huff August 2007
Social Worker’s Role with Victim • Reassure her she is not responsible for the violence occurring or stopping • Understand her ambivalence • Determine protective capacities • Assist in safety planning • Refer her to appropriate services Nicole Huff August 2007
Social Worker’s Role with Batterer • Hold him responsible for his choosing to be violent and controlling • Work with law enforcement to hold him accountable • Assess whether he is taking responsibility for his behavior • Look for strengths • Make appropriate referrals Nicole Huff August 2007
Batterers’ Tactics • Presenting himself as the victim • Statements of remorse and guilt, but no actions • Focusing on victim’s faults/Allegations • Denying & minimizing • Victim blaming • Blaming substance abuse Nicole Huff August 2007
Can child stay safely with non-offending parent? • Protective capacities • Safe location • Acknowledge risk to children • Level of violence-not escalating • Other issues don’t pose a threat • Support, services, community Nicole Huff August 2007
Low Risk Factors • Children show minimal damage • Batterer is out of home or cooperating with restraining orders • Batterer takes responsibility for actions • Victim acknowledges risk and has protective capacities • Family has positive supports • No other risk issues • Minimal/No CPS history Nicole Huff August 2007
Restraining/Protective Orders • Emergency Protective Orders (EPRO) • Temporary Restraining Orders (TRO) • Permanent Restraining Orders • No Contact Orders • Peaceful Contact Orders *CPS cannot require restraining orders! Nicole Huff August 2007
High Risk Factors • Continued violence despite previous intervention • Other types of abuse are present • Child exhibits concerning behavioral and/or emotional effects and/or is having issues functioning • Child is used as weapon in abuse, is intervening, is held during incidents, has been injured Nicole Huff August 2007
High Risk cont. • Other risk factors impacting safety are present • Substance abuse • Mental health • Child abuse • Lethality • Victim does not acknowledge risk Nicole Huff August 2007
Service Provision • Separate services-even if the couple remains intact • Team Decision Making/Family Conferences • Advocates • Safety Plans (victims) • Action Plans (batterers) Nicole Huff August 2007
Services cont. • Batterer’s Intervention • Visitation • Other services (not substitutes) • Substance abuse services • Mental health services • Psychotropic medication Nicole Huff August 2007
Services cont. • Victim services • Closed therapeutic group • Open attendance • Mandated • Inappropriate services • Anger management • Couple’s counseling Nicole Huff August 2007
Who are our partners? • Law enforcement • Victim services • Batterer services • Probation/Parole • Judiciary • Mental health/Substance abuse Nicole Huff August 2007
Desired Outcomes • Safety for victims and children • Break down victim isolation and provide support • Help victim understand • Provide victim appropriate services • Assist in batterer receiving services Nicole Huff August 2007