5 Important Lessons Learned So Far…

1. 5 Important Lessons Learned So Far… Seleena D. Smith, M.Ed. University of Oklahoma February 12, 2011

2. Realize that your journey will take patience and sacrifice • I had a superficial understanding of the amount of sacrifice I would have to make • In pursuit of my dream, I’ve had to miss out on important memories with loved ones • Late nights, limited and/or no sleep at times • Success doesn’t happen overnight

3. Everyone will not understand your vision/path • The vision that you have for your life is just that—yours • Sometimes those closest to you will not support you • Do not allow others to detour you from your dreams • Establish a system of people who can relate and provide support

4. Be flexible • Life is what happens when you’re making other plans • Working with people with diverse backgrounds, experiences, and personalities isn’t always easy • You cannot control everything

5. Balance is important • You cannot lead and serve others if you are not mentally and physically healthy • Make time for family, friends, and activities that you enjoy • Maintain healthy boundaries (personally and professionally) • Find healthy ways to manage stress • Laugh and have fun

6. Reflect and Appreciate • It is so easy to go from one achievement to another • We get caught up on the next thing on the list • Take time to celebrate • Reflect on all you have done and the work it has taken to get where you are today

7. Last but not least • “Never let the odds keep you from doing what you know in your heart you were meant to do”– H. Jackson Brown, Jr. • Believe in yourself and your dreams • It is no accident that you have made it this far…recognize your gifts and understand that you are destined for greatness.