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Understanding Abstinence & Intimacy in Relationships

Learn about the risks of sexual intimacy, importance of emotional intimacy, and skills for choosing abstinence. Discover influences on teens' decisions about sex and the impact of emotional intimacy on relationships.

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Understanding Abstinence & Intimacy in Relationships

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  1. Section 6.4 Choosing Abstinence Objectives Identify some risks of sexual intimacy. Explain why emotional intimacy is important in close relationships. List some skills that can help you choose abstinence.

  2. Health Stats Who has the most influence on a teen’s decisions about sex? The graph shows how some teens responded to this question. Which influences do you think would help teens to make healthy decisions about sex?

  3. Risks of Sexual Intimacy • Sexual intimacy is not risk free. • The risks include • the effect on your emotional health • the effect on your relationship • the risk of pregnancy • the risk of sexually transmitted infections

  4. Effect on Emotional Health • A decision to become sexually involved may go against a person’s values. • The person may feel guilty or ashamed.

  5. Effect on Your Relationship • Sexual intimacy can affect each partner’s expectations. • One partner may expect to have sex whenever the couple is together, while the other partner may not.

  6. Risk of Pregnancy • A teenage pregnancy can pose serious health problems for the baby and the mother. • Babies born to young mothers are often smaller and less healthy than those born to older women. • Teenage mothers are more likely to have health problems during pregnancy than women in their twenties. • Parents are legally responsible to care for their children. • Young people are aware of the problems teenage parents face, but they often don’t think that pregnancy can happen to them. • One in six teenage girls who engage in sexual intercourse becomes pregnant.

  7. Risk of Sexually Transmitted Infections • Some infections can be passed, or transmitted, from one person to another during sexual activity. • Some STIs can cause infertility, or the inability to have children. • Others shorten a person’s life or require medical treatment throughout a person’s life.

  8. Emotional Intimacy • Millions of young people today choose to postpone sexual activity. • Emotional intimacy refers to the openness, sharing, affection, and trust that can develop in a close relationship. • A couple can have a close relationship without being sexually intimate. • But it is hard for them to keep a relationship close if there is no emotional intimacy.

  9. Abstinence Skills • Abstinence is the act of refraining from, or not having, sex. • Abstinence skills include • setting clear limits • communicating your limits • avoiding high-pressure situations • asserting yourself

  10. Set Clear Limits • If you set limits before a situation arises, it will be easier to stick to the standards you set. • To help yourself set limits, be sure to consider the important values that you hold and the possible consequences of your actions.

  11. Communicate Your Limits • Once you have decided on your limits, it is important to communicate your feelings to your partner. • Try to talk honestly to your partner about your feelings and values. • For teens who are sexually involved, it doesn’t mean that they have to continue to be sexually involved.

  12. For:Updates on abstinence Click above to go online.

  13. Avoid High-Pressure Situations • You can make it easier for yourself by avoiding certain situations. • Spend time with friends that share your values.

  14. Assert Yourself • State clearly and directly that you want to stop. • One person may try to pressure another by saying that, at some levels of intimacy, it is impossible to stop without causing physical harm. This isn’t true. • If your partner does not respect the limits you set, the relationship may not be worth continuing.

  15. Vocabulary emotional intimacy The openness, sharing, affection, and trust that can develop in a close relationship. abstinence The act of refraining from, or not having, sex.

  16. QuickTake Quiz Click to start quiz.

  17. Assignments Due • Warm-up off the 1st slide • Notes from the PowerPoint • Define vocabulary words from list on page 152 • Review questions page 156 #’s 1-6 • Please go to: • Online Textbook Access- www.pearsonsuccessnet.com • User Name (case sensitive no spaces)- CVHS2012Password (case sensitive no spaces)- Chippewa2012

  18. For: Chapter 6 self test Click above to go online.

  19. End of Section 6.4 Click on this slide to end this presentation.

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