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1. Principles and Paradigms Leadership Lessons in Personal Change
2. Life through your EYES!
3. How will I see life? A PARADIGM!!!
Assumptions
Ideas or concepts
Beliefs and values
Current practices
IT IS YOUR PERSPECTIVE!
4. What is your paradigm? Concerning your family
Concerning your friends
Concerning School
Concerning LIFE!
5. New Level of Thinking
“The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them”
– Albert Einstein
6. Weak ways to solve issues. It’s the problem of others. Let them deal with it.
Look at the symptoms and ignore the root cause
Expect some magic techniques and quick fixes.
The real solution may be a long process and require significant efforts
7. How do I put on the NEW paradigm glasses?
8. Paradigm - How do we “see” things? The “lens” we all wear
We all see things through our own “Paradigms”, which are our own ways of thinking.
We may not know the paradigm exists, like contact lens. We think what we see is objective. But it may not be.
Two people can see the same thing, disagree and yet both be right.
Our unique experience creates the “lens”
9. Power of the Paradigm Paradigm is our map
Reality, the way things are, where are we now.
Value, the way things should be, where do we want to be
Paradigm determines
Our attitudes
Our behaviors
10. What to do with our Paradigms? Be aware of them
Take responsibilities of them, examine them, test them against reality
Listen to others, be open to their perspectives
Get the large picture
11. Paradigm shift - “See” things differently Paradigm shift is powerful
Fundamentally change our attitudes and behaviors
The only way for us to make significant and quantum changes
Science
From Earth center to Sun center
From bloodletting to germ theory
Society
From Kings to Democracy
Life
Life threaten crisis
Step into a new role
12. Solve our problems What are the “maps” we are using?
The way we “see” things
The way we “handle” things
Are the “maps” correct?
Can they explain our current situation?
Can we get to the destination using them?
Are we lost using the current map?
Change the map
13. Thoughts about my own problem My old paradigms
There is only one successful career path for me. I rely on others to make things happen.
Being in love is sweet and all about happiness.
As long as I have what I want, every problem will be resolved.
My attitude and behaviors are solely based on those paradigms.
Are they correct?
14. What’s the “correct map”? Principles
Real, unchanging, unarguable and self-evident as natural laws
Universally applicable among different societies and religions
15. How to change the “map”? Inside-out
Start with yourself
Paradigms
Characters
Motives
Private victory precedes public victory
Keep Promise to ourselves before to others
Improve ourselves before we improve our relationships
Work on our character before we work on personalities
Continuing renewal process
16. Inside-out examples To have a good friends
Generate positive energy
Sidestep negative energy
More understanding
Empathic
Consistent
To have more freedom and more latitude in your future job
Be more responsible
Be More helpful
To be trusted
Be trustworthy
17. Put the “map” inside us, permanently Characters
Relatively permanent
Distinguishing features
Manifest when relates to others and reacts to various kinds of challenges
Examples
Courage
Honesty
Loyalty
18. Characters Ethic vs. Personalities Ethic Characters Ethic
The foundation of success come from the Characters like Integrity, Humility, Courage…
Personalities Ethic
Human and Public Relationship techniques
Positive Mental Attitude
Characters vs. Personalities
Inside-out vs. Outside-in
Permanent vs. Inconsistent
Natural vs. Artificial
19. The New Paradigm The new level of thinking
Principle-centered
Character-based
Inside-out
20. Principles of Growth Growth happens in little by little
Baby steps
Growth can be seen!
Don’t skip this step
Takes time
21. The Paradigm Change Process It’s a continuing renewal process
Learn the principles
Build the characters
Start with ourselves
22. Conclusion Solution to your problem
23. This is the beginning of Leadership! We learned
Our significant problems are the fruits of our own paradigms, the “lens” we wear and the “maps” we use
Our problems can be solved by paradigm shifts.
A correct paradigm is Principle-Centered, Character-based, Inside-out
Paradigm shift takes a continuing renewal process