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Self-Esteem. Great Expectations. Today’s Quote:. YOU CAN’T CHANGE WHAT YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND. -Dylan. self-esteem. a just opinion of oneself. Recognizing Low and High Self-Esteem.
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Self-Esteem Great Expectations
Today’s Quote: YOU CAN’T CHANGE WHAT YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND. -Dylan
self-esteem a just opinion of oneself
Recognizing Low and High Self-Esteem • It is always expressed in behavior. • It can be determined in their. . . a. attitudes b. actions
Connectedness Satisfying relationships with significant persons. Research from Clemes and Bean
Students with a Connectedness Problem: • Spend quite a bit of time by themselves. • Don’t volunteer to help you. • Have few or no friends. • Uncomfortable about touching or being touched.
Uniqueness One must acknowledge and respect his/her special qualities and must receive affirmation that such qualities are valued by others.
Students with a Uniqueness Problem: • Don’t show much imagination. • Rarely contribute original ideas. • Embarrassed by praise. • Convinced they are not very special. • Usually conforms to other’s wishes. • Get uncomfortable when called on or singled out.
Power Having the resources, the opportunity and the capability to influence the circumstances of one’s own life.
Behaviors that indicate a Power Problem: • Often stubborn and bossy. • Frequently act helpless. • React poorly to frustration. • Take credit for the accomplishments of others. • Use “give-up” excuses. • Lack emotional self-control. • Withhold resources which others need. • Avoid making “I” statements. • Create distractions.
Models One must be able to refer to adequate examples in order to establish meaningful values, ideals, and personal standards.
Behaviors that indicate a Models Problem: • Don’t respond well to instruction. • Get confused easily. • Waste time. Can’t stay focused. • Sloppy,messy, and disorganized with self and materials. • Have a difficult time deciding what to do. • Don’t seem to be headed in any direction.