Internet and Media Safety for Families

1. Internet andMedia Safetyfor Families <name> Ward <Date>

2. Technology is alwaysa two-edged Sword

3. How many of ushave these devices in your home? How many of these devices can access the Internet? Television sets Smartphones Game consoles Computers Tablets DVD players

4. PresentationOutline Discussion throughout Presentation Objectives Why even use the Internet? Stay safe tips for the Internet Parental Controls Plug In to your Family Suggested Actions

5. PresentationObjectives Understand what we and our children face on the Internet Understand how Internet content can benefit your family Understand protecting your children on the Internet Understand how to be involved with your children and technology Encourage us to BE INVOLVED and not be a bystander

6. Why even use the Internet? Communication Entertainment Education Personal research Gospel study Shopping

7. Jeff Huber from Google

8. Social NetworkingAddiction What do youneed thecomputer for?

9. Stay Safe Tipsfor Social Networking Internet “We were ready to hire you until we sawthe photo of you on Facebook slidingon the ice at Rockefeller Centerwearing only bowling shoes and a Viking helmet” Don’t leave a computer when still logged in Always be suspicious of others online Don’t provide personal information Never meet without taking someone with you Only visit sites intended for your age Check the privacy settings Don’t interfere with other profiles Post only items that are in good taste

10. How to RecognizeDangerous Email You don’t know the person sending email Claims sound too good to be true Someone wants to send you money or a prize Bank asks for your account information Email asks to click on a link or download a file Email has misspellings or sounds awkward Never click the Unsubscribe link

11. Good Web SurfingHabits “Quick! Go online andfind out how to do CPR on a fish.” Update anti-virus and anti-malware programs Use a physical firewall Never click on pop-ups Be selective about registering at websites Avoid suspect websites Use credit card only on well-known websites Avoid peer-to-peer (P2P) network programs Log out from websites before leaving computer

12. Parental Controls Jeremy,canyou help us ?

13. Parental Controls There’s something fundamentally wrongwhen you need your kidto unlock the TV’s parental controls.

14. Internet Content Filtering OpenDNS - DNS service for Internet Content Filtering Software Packages for Internet Content Filtering Product comparisonwebsite

15. Implementing Parental Controls Discuss handout Televisions/Cable Netflix/Hulu and others Computers/laptops – PC, Mac Smartphones – IOS, Android, Windows

16. “I can’t go to bed. I told all the guys that when school was out, you’d let me stay upand watch David Letterman!”

17. Plug In to your Family Hold Family Home Evening Create a family identity Set times for TV, video games and Internet Be OK with unstructured time

18. Twelve Tips for Parent-Child Interviews Hold interviews regularly Mothers and fathers can interview children jointly or take turns Pray beforehand Begin with a prayer Plan to listen more than you speak Don’t compare one child with another When correcting, give a clear but loving explanation Agree together what words best describe each problem Don’t compromise gospel standards “just this once” Praise each child generously and cheerfully Bear your testimony often Don’t discuss one child’s problems with other children

19. “Well Robbie,you broke into NASAand caused a ruckus again. You know the consequences:No SpongeBob for a week!”

20. We need to protect our nestlings Boyd K. Packer

21. Deseret BookClean & SafeMedia Pledge Discuss handout

22. Conclusions The Internet is a wonderful resource Internet hazards can be managed Parents need to set the right example

23. Suggested Actions “You said I should spend more timewith our children; I turned their faces into iconson my desktop.” Read: LDS Gospel Topics - Internet Search for: Internet and Family Safety Hold a Family Home Evening on this topic Stay involved with your children Send me an email for a copy of this presentation Attend the 7-lesson Sunday School class on this topic

24. Internet and Media Safety for Families7-Lesson Sunday School Class Children are an Heritage of the Lord The Sacred Roles of Fathers and Mothers Internet and Media Safety for Families Teach your Children about Media Choices Teach your Children to prevent/avoid Pornography Teach Your Children about inappropriate Internet/Media Exposures Make Emergency Response Plans

25. Discussion

26. WEBWISE • A teen guide to staying safe online • http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/school_report/9692450.stm • Internet use and safety • http://www.bbc.co.uk/cbeebies/grownups/article/internet-use-and-safety • Parents on social media • http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-21293438 • Top ten online safety tips • http://www.bbc.co.uk/webwise/0/21259413 • What can parents do? • http://www.bbc.co.uk/webwise/0/22728225

27. Bibliography - 1 • Agency and Accountability • https://www.lds.org/youth/for-the-strength-of-youth/agency-and-accountability?lang=eng • Avoid Unsafe E-Mail and Scams • http://www.dummies.com/how-to/content/for-seniors-avoid-unsafe-email-and-scams.html • 'The Big Disconnect' helps parents and kids navigate the digital world • http://www.calgaryherald.com/life/Review+Disconnect+helps+parents+kids+navigate+digital+world/8787255/story.html • Deseret Book - Clean & Safe Media Pledge • http://deseretbook.com/familypledge • Entertainment and Media • https://www.lds.org/youth/for-the-strength-of-youth/entertainment-and-media?lang=eng

28. Bibliography - 2 • Good e-mail practice • http://www.emailhelpdesk.co.uk/Guidelines/good-e-mail-practice.html • How do I keep my child safe on social networks? • http://www.bbc.co.uk/webwise/guides/children-and-social-networks • How you can protect your family online • https://www.google.ca/goodtoknow/familysafety/ • How To Set Up a Network Router • http://compnetworking.about.com/od/homenetworking/ht/routerconfigure.htm

29. Bibliography - 3 • Internet Safety 101 • http://www.internetsafety101.org/ • LDS Gospel Topics - Internet • http://www.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?locale=0&sourceId=75759daac5d98010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&vgnextoid=bbd508f54922d010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD • LDS Tech - Internet and Family Safety • http://tech.lds.org/wiki/Family_safety • Safe Search Kids • http://www.safesearchkids.com • Should a 4-year-old own a smartphone? • http://www.theglobeandmail.com/technology/tech-news/should-a-4-year-old-own-a-smartphone/article14602427/

30. Bibliography - 4 • Staying Safe on YouTube • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nI2tmiKdPnU • Twelve Tips for Parent-Child Interviews • By Steven B. Glade • https://www.lds.org/ensign/1997/06/twelve-tips-for-parent-child-interviews?lang=eng&query=interview+children+interview+NEAR/1+children • Unplug so you can plug in to your family • http://www.azcentral.com/thingstodo/kids/articles/20130515projects-teach-children-sewing.html?nclick_check=1 • YouTube Safety Center • https://www.youtube.com/yt/policyandsafety/safety.html

31. Fake LinkedInEmail

32. The Internet is not a place for irresponsible behaviour “If you can’t say anything nice, then don’t say anything at all!” “If you can’tsay anything nice, then just say it online!”

33. Internet and Media Safetyfor Families “We don’t all follow youon Twitter, Kayla. So please just tellthe class what you didduring the summer . . .”

34. Write downyour passwords Sometimes my memory fails me, so I changed my password to “incorrect”. That way, when I login with the wrong password, the computer responds with: “Your password is incorrect” to remind me.

35. Typical HomeNetwork Configuration Internet ShawInternetmodem In-homerouter(back view) Laptop