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The Survival Guide for Finding Lasting Love

The Survival Guide for Finding Lasting Love. Conscious Dating. Presented by Mosline Farawu. Preparing for the Journey. INTRO. Know Who You Are & What You Want !.

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The Survival Guide for Finding Lasting Love

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  1. The Survival Guide for Finding Lasting Love Conscious Dating Presented by Mosline Farawu

  2. Preparing for the Journey INTRO

  3. Know Who You Are & What You Want! Like an iceberg, we are typicallyaware only of the tip, whileour success and happiness depends upon what lies below the surface. PREPARATION

  4. Learn How to Get What You Want! Assess the information, tools, and skills you will need and acquire them. Develop creative strategies and action plans. "When you fail to plan, you plan to fail." PREPARATION

  5. Take initiative and responsibility for your outcomes. Don’t react to what, or who, chooses you. Seek to create what you want in your life. Be the "Chooser"! PREPARATION

  6. Make your relationship choices consciously. Don’t let your body’s chemistry takecontrol. Think about your needs. It’s still exciting! Balance Your Heart with Your Head! PREPARATION

  7. Live your life and bring your dating strategy into alignment with how ready you really are for a committed relationship. Be Ready & Available PREPARATION

  8. Be the partner that you areseeking. Attract the partner that you want by developingyourself and living the life that you want. "If youbuild it, they will come." Use the “Law of Attraction” PREPARATION

  9. Gain relationship knowledge and skills! PREPARATION

  10. Isolated singles become lonely in their relationships when they focus on a partner to meet all their social and emotional needs. Create a Support Community! PREPARATION

  11. To get what you really want, you need to say "No" to what you don’t want. Practice Assertiveness! PREPARATION

  12. Be a "Successful Single"! PREPARATION

  13. Watch Out For Dating Traps!

  14. Trying to attract a partner by making yourself more appealing, believing you have to sell yourself because nobody would want you as you really are. Marketing Trap DATING TRAPS

  15. The opposite of the MarketingTrap. Instead of seeking to sell yourself with attractive packaging, you focus on the packaging of others, such as age, body type, weight, income, etc. Packaging Trap DATING TRAPS

  16. Believing there is a limited supply of possible partners so youhave to take what you can get or be alone. Scarcity Trap DATING TRAPS

  17. Believing that if you’re having fun with someone and getting alongwell, then you’re compatible and a committed relationship will work. Compatibility Trap DATING TRAPS

  18. This is passively expecting your ideal partner to magically appear so that you can live happily ever after without effort on your part. Believing that finding your soul mate will just "happen." Fairytale Trap DATING TRAPS

  19. Becoming an instant couple with everybody you date, as if you’re giving the relationship a test drive. Assuming that by becoming a couple and trying out the relationship that a successful committed relationship will happen. Date-to-Mate Trap DATING TRAPS

  20. Making your choices based solely on feelings of attraction. You interpret a strong attraction to someone as a sign that this relationship is a good choice and is meant to be. Attraction Trap DATING TRAPS

  21. Interpreting infatuation,attraction, need, good sex, or emotional attachment as love. Love Trap DATING TRAPS

  22. Prioritizing physical intimacy and regarding everything else as optional. Your main criterion for a relationship is sexual attraction and physical compatibility. You become a couple as soon as you have sex. Sex Trap DATING TRAPS

  23. Hoping that a relationship will solve your emotional and financial problems and bring you happiness and fulfillment; like winning the lottery. Rescue Trap DATING TRAPS

  24. You expect someone willlove you and give you what you want by giving the other person what they want. You pursue relationships because you feel incomplete when you’re not in one. Co-Dependent Trap DATING TRAPS

  25. Your attitude toward your partner is "What can you do for me?" "Make me feel good." "Make me happy." Entitlement Trap DATING TRAPS

  26. Believe that "what you see is what you get" and seeing what you want to see instead of using actual experience and knowledge to make long-term relationship choices. Virtual Reality Trap DATING TRAPS

  27. You are focused on your goal of finding a partner and believe that the other relationships in your life are less important. Then, you feel isolated and believe that there’sa scarcity of potential partners. Lone Ranger Trap DATING TRAPS

  28. The treasured love you seek awaits you. You have to know yourself. Know what to look for… and be willing to be patient and persistent. Request my FREE 5-Day Ecourse-Fill out the form below this video.

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