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Attraction and Exclusion. AttractionAnything that draws two or more people togetherSocial acceptancePeople like you and include you in their groupsRejection (Social exclusion)People exclude you from their groups. Tradeoffs - Testosterone A Blessing and a Curse. Testosterone is a hormone associ
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1. Chapter 11 - Attraction and Exclusion The Need to Belong
Attraction: Who Likes Whom?
Rejection
This is an overview of the topics of the chapter. Before beginning the chapter there is a slide based on the chapter introduction that can be used to stimulate classroom discussion.This is an overview of the topics of the chapter. Before beginning the chapter there is a slide based on the chapter introduction that can be used to stimulate classroom discussion.
2. Attraction and Exclusion Attraction
Anything that draws two or more people together
Social acceptance
People like you and include you in their groups
Rejection (Social exclusion)
People exclude you from their groups
3. Tradeoffs - TestosteroneA Blessing and a Curse Testosterone is a hormone associated with masculinity
Testosterone is a mixed blessing
High testosterone men are more exciting, but less reliable
Interested in exploring new places and less prone to stay at home Technology Tip: Feminine Males More Attractive is a student-friendly research review published by the BBC on testosterone, feminine versus masculine faces, and perceived attractiveness (http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/4261489.stm).
Technology Tip: Invite students to participate in an online study of perceived attractiveness at alittlelab.comTechnology Tip: Feminine Males More Attractive is a student-friendly research review published by the BBC on testosterone, feminine versus masculine faces, and perceived attractiveness (http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/4261489.stm).
Technology Tip: Invite students to participate in an online study of perceived attractiveness at alittlelab.com
4. Tradeoffs - TestosteroneA Blessing and a Curse Testosterone is better suited for finding mates than maintaining stable families
Testosterone reaches peak around age 20 and declines thereafter
New fathers testosterone drops Technology Tip: Research suggests that men with highly masculine faces are perceived as less desirable as long-term mates. See research summary, Womens Attractiveness Judgments Track Mens Affinity to Children, Hormone Levels (http://chronicle.uchicago.edu/060511/attraction.shtml).Technology Tip: Research suggests that men with highly masculine faces are perceived as less desirable as long-term mates. See research summary, Womens Attractiveness Judgments Track Mens Affinity to Children, Hormone Levels (http://chronicle.uchicago.edu/060511/attraction.shtml).
5. The Need to Belong Need to belong is powerful drive within human psyche
Form and maintain close lasting relationships
People usually form relationships easily
People are reluctant to end relationships
6. The Need to Belong Two ingredients to belongingness
Regular social contact with others
Close, stable, mutually intimate contact
Having one without the other = partial satisfaction
Technology Tip: Interpersonal contact via the Internet may be similarly unsatisfying. Research indicates that social isolation is a cost of Internet usage; see Stanford Internet Charges a Steep Social Cost (http://sanjose.bizjournals.com/sanjose/stories/2005/02/21/daily28.html) and Isolation Increases With Internet Use (http://www.apa.org/monitor/sep98/isolat.html).Technology Tip: Interpersonal contact via the Internet may be similarly unsatisfying. Research indicates that social isolation is a cost of Internet usage; see Stanford Internet Charges a Steep Social Cost (http://sanjose.bizjournals.com/sanjose/stories/2005/02/21/daily28.html) and Isolation Increases With Internet Use (http://www.apa.org/monitor/sep98/isolat.html).
7. The Need to Belong People do not continue to form relationships
Most people seek four to six close relationships
Even in people-rich environments, most people form social circles of about six people
8. Not Belonging Is Bad for You Failure to satisfy a need to belong leads to significant health problems
Death rates are higher among people without social connections
People without a good social network have more physical and mental health problems
9. Major Antecedents of Attraction Friendships and close relationships are at or near the top of the list of what people say makes them happy; people desire to be liked by even the most casual of acquaintances.
10. The Person Next Door: The Propinquity Effect Major Antecedents of Attraction