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Digging Below the Surface

Digging Below the Surface. What Drives Behavior…. Find someone with your matching picture. . Getting to Know You. Ask them… How do you feel about…(the item on your card)? NOW… Pick a tool and say

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Digging Below the Surface

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  1. Digging Below the Surface What Drives Behavior…

  2. Find someone with your matching picture.

  3. Getting to Know You • Ask them… • How do you feel about…(the item on your card)? • NOW… • Pick a tool and say • “Pick a picture/fabric/texture that says something about how you feel about…(the item on your card).”

  4. Why We Need to Dig Deep

  5. What Could Get in The Way?

  6. What Lies Beneath the Surface? Emotional Regulation

  7. Faced With a Problem? Problem Managers Emotional Regulators

  8. Why?

  9. What is Emotional Regulation? • A method of controlling your emotions when you find yourself in a situation where you don’t see a “way out” or a solution • Solutions must be things you feel: • Confident • Capable/Control • Able • Willing • When you don’t, you justify or rationalize doing something else (or not doing anything)

  10. Emotional Regulation: Examples • There is a traffic jam • You cannot control it • “It wasn’t that important of a meeting anyway” • “Emily can cover for me.” • A colleague of yours “snubs” you • What would it FEEL like to not have a way of rationalizing or “making it not so bad?”

  11. Emotional Regulation • How does this relate to WIC? • “My baby didn’t seem to like breastfeeding, he prefers the formula.” • “He won’t like that...” • “Clients don’t like this…”

  12. Example: Mom is frustrated and confused about her baby’s crying. Stuck in Traffic Finding their Exit • Seeking solutions with the help of her family, doctor, or WIC about her baby’s behavior Tell herself it is “okay” or that “she must” overfeed to keep her baby from crying

  13. Everyone Has Traffic

  14. The Next 2 Days

  15. What to Expect • Identify the Roadways: • Baby Behavior and Infant Feeding • Dig Below the Surface: • Looking at infant growth in a new way • Using Getting to the Heart of the Matter • Offering Solutions or “Exits”: • Finding the right baby behavior and nutrition education and breastfeeding message • Offering it in the spirit of PCS

  16. For Your Consideration… • As we move forward these next two days…

  17. #1 There’s Always More to the Story

  18. #2 Be Open To Finding Your Exit

  19. Let’s Find The Exits Together

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