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Listening and Listeners. Ms. Chacon Speech and Debate. “Nobody ever listened himself [themselves] out of a job.” Calvin Coolidge What do they mean by this quote? Do you agree with the quote? Explain why. Bell ringer.
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Listening and Listeners Ms. Chacon Speech and Debate
“Nobody ever listened himself [themselves] out of a job.” Calvin Coolidge • What do they mean by this quote? • Do you agree with the quote? Explain why. Bell ringer
Passive Listener: Someone who believes that communication lies in the person talking. Listens without evaluating what is heard. • Active Listener: Listener that provides feedback about what they hear to the speaker, by way of re-stating or paraphrasing what they have heard in their own words, to confirm what they have heard and understand. Types of Listener
Appreciative Listening: allows individuals to listen for entertainment or enjoyment, such as when we listen to poetry or music. 2. Discriminative Listening: Singling out one particular sound from a noisy environment. Four Ways of Listening
3. Empathic Listening: Listening to understand what another person is thinking and feeling. 4. Critical Listening: Evaluate what is heard and decide if message is logical, worthwhile, or has value Four Ways of Listening
Good Listener= Popular and happy! • Good Listener= Encouraging to fellow peers by valuing what they hear. • Good Listener= Has feedback Good Listeners
Interrupting • MEGO “My Eyes Glaze Over” • Faking attention • Yielding to distractions • Criticizing delivery or appearance • Jumping to conclusions • Overreacting “emotional words” 7 Deadly Sins of Bad Listeners
Experiences Age Emotions Morals Religion Attitudes Bias Etc… Filters That Distort