Practical Parenting Presents Homework Help: Strategies, Time Management and Organization Skills

1. Practical Parenting PresentsHomework Help: Strategies, Time Management and Organization Skills Presented by: Melissa Seal School Counselor: Franklinton Primary School

2. DO ANY OF THESE SOUND FAMILIAR? • Nightly battles over when homework will be done • “Forgetting” to bring his/her homework assignments home • Your child rushes through homework assignments • Your child takes forever to finish his/her assignments • Your child insists he/she is able to do homework while watching TV, talking on the phone, etc • The first time you hear about a project is the night before it is due…and it isn’t finished

3. GOAL: To help make homework time with your child less challenging and more productive by sharing strategies for promoting academic success by: 1. making it a positive experience 2. motivating your child 3. teaching organization skills and time management

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6. Read the following sequence silently, pausing at each dash:MT-VVC-RC-IAU-SAB-MWLook away from the page and write down any letters from this sequence that you can remember. Here’s a test of your short-term memory.

7. Now, read the following sequence silently, again pausing at each dash:MTV-VCR-CIA-USA-BMWLook away from the page and write down any letters from this sequence that you can remember.

8. Take another look at the two sequences: MT-VVC-RC-IAU-SAB-MW MTV-VCR-CIA-USA-BMW Notice anything? The letters are the same in each sequence. Yet, you most likely found it a lot easier to remember the second sequence. Why?

9. Most people can hold about 7 meaningful pieces of information in their short-term memory. Meaningful pieces of information could be numbers, words, faces, objects, or any other “chunks” of information. While short-term memory is important, it is long-term memory that really matters when it comes to learning. How does short-term memory become long-term memory? Source: http://www.stanford.edu/dept/news/stanfordtoday/ed/9811/9811iti01.shtml

10. Practice(also called rehearsal) of information is required to convert short-term memory intolong-term memory. Without practice, short-term memory is forgotten. new information short-term memory usually lost rapid retrieval practice forgetting remembering slower retrieval long-term memory

11. Practice? That sounds a lot like Homework And Studying

12. WHY IS HOMEWORK IMPORTANT? • Homework affects achievement at school. • Homework teaches your child responsibility. • Link between home and school.

13. MAKE STUDY TIME A POSITIVE EXPERIENCE Be interested: • Make time to talk about school and learning in family conversations. • Attend school activities, get to know their teacher & friends. This shows your child that his home and school are a team! • Praise your child’s efforts. • Hug or Pat on the shoulder will increase impact. • Give praise (do not add “but, and, or”). Children often remember the last part of the sentence and not the beginning. Help build their self-esteem. Display good work ****Never use study time as a punishment!****

14. MAKE HOMEWORK TIME A POSITIVE EXPERIENCE….HOW? • Homework time=Study time • Set up a proper STUDY AREA: Let them have a sense of control. • LOCATION? Choose a well-lit location together. • DO NOT DISTRUB sign • HOMEWORK KIT

15. Homework Survival Kit *Pencils *Sharpener *Crayons *Paper *Scissors *Glue *Note cards *Hole punch *Pens *Ruler *Eraser *Timer *Tape *Stapler

16. POSITIVE EXPERIENCE & STUDY SKILLS: • Reading • Read to your child • Listen to your child read • Library • Build a library of their own • Kid magazines • Encourage your kids to write stories of their own • Turn off the TV and read together • Discuss questions, connections, using mental images while reading

17. HOMEWORK TIME: Grades K-3 • Check your child’s backpack/homework folder each day • Check for necessary materials in kit • Announce when study time begins • Read directions together and help child get started by doing first problem together • Be available for help • Praise and encourage

18. Grades 4-5 • Check to see if child is doing HW during study time • Encouragement: Emphasize your confidence in child’s ability to do the work on their own. • Be available and give assistance only after he/she makes and effort on their own. • Look over completed assignments.

19. MOTIVATION IDEAS: • Beat the Clock: “If you get your work completed with mostly correct answers before the timer goes off, then you get…. • Spinner “Each time you complete your work, you earn a spin.” • Chunking: Complete small amounts at a time with breaks in between.

20. MORE IDEAS: • Token system (use more frequently at the beginning.) • Celebrate accomplishments: Encourage your child to have fun such as eating a snack, calling a friend, starting an activity or watching a favorite TV show when finished.

21. SELF-BARGANING & HOMEWORK INCENTIVES

22. TIME MANAGEMENT“If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.” • Study time must be scheduled into your child’s day. Determine the best time to study. • Select a time when you or another adult will be available. • Try to schedule the same time for all children.

23. ORGANIZATION SKILLS/TIME MANAGEMENT • Help child check backpack and homework folder and encourage child to get ready for the next day. • Keep notebooks organized. (Missing papers don’t earn A’s) • Conduct a weekly clean-up. Lose the clutter. • Set a good example. • Keep a calendar/create to do list

24. Set goals and break big tasks into smaller tasks=success= confidence. Set deadlines and avoid last minute cramming. ORGANIZATION/TIME MANAGMENT…

25. WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD IS NOT DOING THEIR HOMEWORK: COMMUNICATE CLEARLY & EFFECTIVELY • Make study time a priority. • Tell your child the choice is theirs. • He/she can complete their homework appropriately or have privileges suspended until homework is finished. *Don’t make meaningless threats* • Don’t argue, use the broken record. • Calm, firm, and sit down one-on-one • Keep repeating what it is you want-”I understand but I want you to do your homework right now.” • Avoid being sidetracked • Use the Broken record a max of 3 times and then follow through and “back your words with action.”

26. YOUR PARTNER AT SCHOOL-THE TEACHER Do not hesitate to contact the teacher when your child is having homework problems. “Team” • If your child CANNOT DO the homework assignment… • Do not step in and do the work for your child. • Send a note and possibly include observations of what happens when your child tries to do the work. • If the problem continues, try to set up a conference. • If your child does NOT BRING HOME assigned work… • Ask the teacher if she/he can sign and date his/her assignments sheet or agenda, or email you assignments.

27. Summary 1. Location: Having a set location in the house devoted to HW is a key tip. 2. Time: Figuring our the best time to complete HW assignments. 3. Time Management skills: Teach children the proper time management skills, PRIORITIZE 4. Understanding: Having a clear understanding of what the assignment entails is extremely helpful. 5. Praise/Reward: Giving children something to look forward to can be a great motivational tool.

28. IMPORTANT NOTES: • Consistency is the key to success! • Change is gradual and learning a new habit takes around 21 days. • Thank you for your attention & participation this evening! • Email: mseal.fps@wpsb.org