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Self Regulation and Children’s Social and Emotional Development. Jacquie Gill RECE IP Kinark Child and Family Services. Purpose of today’s presentation plant some seeds. What is Self regulation?.
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Self Regulation and Children’s Social and Emotional Development Jacquie Gill RECE IP Kinark Child and Family Services
What is Self regulation? Self-regulation or emotion regulation is the ability to respond to the ongoing demands of experience with the range of emotions in a manner that is socially tolerable and sufficiently flexible to permit spontaneous reactions as well as the ability to delay spontaneous reactions as needed.
Why is it important? Our ability to regulate or manage our behaviour allows us to; • focus when there are distractions • pay attention to the most important information • take turns • wait • follow rules • adapt to new situations • do what is socially expected • suppress outbursts of anger • take on challenges.
When does self-regulation begin? • Children are born with the skills for survival. The behave in ways to get their needs met. Their need for comfort, food, sleep, etc. • This is where the foundation of their learning begins. It all starts with healthy, secure attachments to their primary caregiver (ATTACHMENT).
Answer is:how the caring adultsin a child’s worldrespond to their distress
and distress is Fight flight Freeze reactions Jeanette Yoffe
Other Factors • Temperament • Relationship • Attunement • Trauma • Family Systems • Functions of Behaviour
Factors that Contribute to Behaviour Rules & Routines Task Demands Social Situations Transitions Personality Age/Stage of Development Biological Factors Diagnosis Family Dynamics Change in Routines Instructions Home Environment Physical/Emotional State Difficulties Communicating Over/Under-Stimulating Environments Consequences
Demonstration Balancing our “Mind Platter”
Demonstration Left brain trying to learn
How can we promote self regulation? • Carefully observe your child • Demonstrate self-regulation yourself • Teach your child words to express his thoughts and emotions • Create routines and make expectations clear • Encourage play with other children • Help your child play imaginatively • Follow your child’s lead • Play games with rules • Encourage physical play • Let children make choices and set goals